So I met this girl the other night and I ended up kissing her at the end of the night and she gave me her number before I could get to asking. Definitely was interested.

The next morning I texted her

"Hey it's ____. What kind of trouble are you causing today?"

She hasn't responded at all and i don't want to seem needy double texting or whatever.

Any tips? What I can say or do next? I originally figured she was just busy but shes a white college girl, they're all glued to their phones.

I was thinking something along the lines of saying: "You give me your number than don't text back? How rude."

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--Freshh
Columbia SC

Sorry y'all didn't read the whole topic info

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--Freshh
Columbia SC

Don't do this. As a matter of fact, don't do anything. Let her get in touch with you. If she was interested, like you say, you just be patient and give it a couple of days. If she doesn't text you back in a couple of days, then contact her and ask her out for drinks. If she doesn't respond after that, then she's not really interested.

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Good advice thanks man.

From that I was thinking after a couple days like you said invite her out to this party we are having Saturday. Hows that?

I'm trying to delete this post and repost it in the right category...cant figure out how (surprise im new)

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--Freshh
Columbia SC

I would not advise inviting her to a party until after you met up with her for some one-on-one time. You need to build a bond with her first because you want her to be into you before you put her in an environment where another guy will definitely try to pick her up. That one-on-one time will imply that when she shows up at the party, she is there for you and not the party.

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Gotcha, ill wait and see what happens then give that a shot.

Appreciate the advice bud.

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--Freshh
Columbia SC

Dude DO NOT text her again until you hear from her. Take an attitude of she'll get back to me when gets back to me if not all's fair in love and war. I wouldn't say Jack is wrong, but I have to ask why would you invite a girl out for drinks when she can't even be bothered to answer your text? Google Corey wayn desreation and blowing up her phone. Watch that video then tell me if you see the similarities between what he did and what you're talking about doing.

I don't really agree about worrying over her not replying once.
Go ahead and text her at least three times total, with no reply.

Girls are fickle. Text her at the wrong time of day, she doesn't bother to respond. Text her at the right time of day, and she does.

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Sometimes a nonresponse to a text that has no purpose or is only smalltalk doesn't mean disinterest. Sending a second and third text of that nature will start to reflect a needy frame and will become unattractive. Asking her out for drinks serves a purpose for why you are contacting her and gets rid of unnecessary banter where you can end up saying something that can be interpreted incorrectly. It is also a way of getting what you really want from the girl, unless what you want is just to text.

Remember what your goal is. You got her number so you can see her again. Additional text conversations are stepping backwards because no matter how hard you try, a text is not an emotional tool. Do less gaming on text and try to continue from where you last saw her and that should be in person and then have your banter when you can escalate physically.

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I used to get this problem all the time as i'm sure a lot of people have. I read that if a girl gives you her number the best thing to do is text back that's same night be it a few hours or even ten minutes. Contrary to the belief you should wait 3 days if you wait that long chances are she has forgotten any chemistry you had that night and now you are just one of many guy texting her with meaningless small talk.

You're being too gamey.

Would you be able to elaborate?

story of my birth

Just the way he's saying things. He's trying way too hard.

I agree with you in the fact that pointless banter is well pointless and does more harm than good, but when you're opening a new girl over text for the first time you're not going to ask her out in the first 2 texts you have to have somewhat of a convo. Op tried that albeit he could have used a more attention grabbing opener, but she wasn't even interested enough to have a conversation that could lead to meeting up. Even if she just happened to be busy at the time if she had any interest at all she would have returned his text later the fact she didn't tells me little to no interest. She has his number she knows he texted her leave it at that maybe she'll call or text maybe she won't. Imo and I'm not saying this applies to you, but guys that chase girls that gont answer their texts don't have enough women in their lives.