How to do to reverse a bad environment after screw up a good impression at the first meet?

This happened with me more than once, unfortunately.

The last time, I went to a meeting and a met to Asian girls there, and other guys.
I was going well. Being playful, funny, doing kino. Not all the time, but I was leading the group. Everything was going well until we left the restaurant the we were. I could get numbers of the two girls, and facebook of one, the other doesn't have facebook.

After that I was trying keeping funny through the messages, but things didn't worked so well I aspect and I blew up with both girls. I was to meet one of the tomorrow, but she told me that is maybe not the best ideia, and give one excuse... I got that she doesn't wanted see me again. And the other moved to a different city, but I don't hope the she will keeping in touch with me.

I know that I start well, but in some point I just do lame things and screw up with everything.

So, what to do to reverse this kind off situation? At least to no be awkward between us anymore.

Time and no communication. When you bump into her again, do not bring up anything that happened in the past. There's no level of text game that can help. It's about creating a new impression when you do see her again. For now, other girls. And no more blowing up on chicks

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Thanks dad. I learn my lesson.

I won't more blowing up on chicks (hopefully).

When i get number of a girl i dated, I immediately get off, like "Hey, my friend is in trouble, i have to go now, i'll call you tomorrow" or something like this. The idea is to keep the peak of the good conversation and the DHV that i have. So when we see next we continue from where we were last time. If i get her number and continue fooling around with her it makes no-sense to pick up her number. It's like i'm obsessed by her. Or when i meet girls on random situation (in train, bus, streets, club and so on.) When i get their numbers i said "i have to go, i'll call you) Wait for 2-4 days and call them. Making them nervous and expecting me to call. Then they think "he's not going to call...... " and then i call them. The problem in me was that i didn't seduce them, not doing kino and/or not pulling the trigger. So wish you good luck and if the things are screwed keep in mind next time

Yes, time and no contact usually do the trick. But you can speed it up a little by maning the right excuses. For instance "I'm sorry, I was a little bit too eager yesterday, it got weird. Maybe de can hook up another time", and then you go silent for a few weeks or months. The next time you talk to the girl, make sure to play it cool and don't rush anything.

This reminds me for another technique i have read - Close and far. When you're meeting a girl that is attracted and you (have interest in you) one date you're cool smiled and so on. The next date you are like disinterested in her and then next date you are again cool. I have read that this drives girls crazy and their desire to know what happens and are they the reason, what's wrong in them can make them sleep with you.
My math teacher once told us, how he slept with a girl when he was student. He, his roommate and two more girls played Associations . Then he had to guess a musical instrument. It was some Indian instrument but he guessed. The girl that chose that word was so curious how he guessed it, also it's not popular instrument, so while he didn't tell her she asked him, she was very interested in him. When all people went to bed, he went to sleep on his bed, but she asked him to sleep with her. Then they started making it when she asked him:
Tell me how did you guess.......
All i mean is that women's desire to know the trick is the cat-string. As much she curious is the more she's ready to sleep with you.

You need to have done something really interesting to call her attention at first time, otherwise, she just will move on to the next guy if you don't show more interest on her.

I think in this kind of situation you need a lot of sensibility to know if she will bit your bait. If you didn't built attraction, probably won't work.

But can be special powerful do this with girls that like a challenge.

My best friend CJ was the most popular kid in the entire school when I was in high school. He didn't sleep with many chicks; he didn't care for that, but socially he was the man. I was more so the guy that would sleep with the girls when he would bring me with him to house parties and social events.

But anyway, he was a fuck up and would always do some fucked up shit that would make the average person hate him and never want to talk to him again. But people always continued to be cool with him, even after he fucked them over. He was never awkward.

So one day I asked him.. " How do you do it man? Whenever I fuck up, I get weird and retreat to my little hole(which is more weird). How do you keep friends when you fuck up so much? "

And he looked at me and said.. " I just say sorry"

That was it.. He just says sorry and means it.. Then life goes on.

We don't have to avoid the people that we fuck up with; we just have to know how to properly repair situations. "sorry" may not be your way, but theres always a way. Just confront the situation like an adult and reconcile.

It could be as easy as saying "sorry" and meaning it.

Its an energy thing, its not in the actually words. Its more in the intention behind the words that you are saying.

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