| Yesterday was one amazing day for me.
Two days ago, one girl arrived in my room (I live in a hostel), and she was hot. And I really liked her style.
We started talk, have some fun. I did some kino.
I had to go to work, she was tired, so, before I leave I asked her if she had plans for the next day. She hadn't, so I invited to go out with me. She agreed with.
So far, was good, but nothing special here.
Next day, we had our breakfast in a place near of the hostel. And the we went to a art gallery. When we were there I was being playful asking her about the paints and creating stories about it. I never did this before, but I just thought that I could apply the elements of The Cube there and see what happen. Was very funny.
She was impressived.
Time to time I give her some space and walked far from her. I have to confess that I remembered the movie Hitch when I was in the gallery, about give her some space but still in a place that she can see me.
Before we left, I bought a little gift to her, but I didn't give to her yet. Was nothing expensive, but something that I knew it that she was like it and will make her think about me and the gallery. And I had a plan for the gift.
From there, we went to other place. In the way to there I was doing kino and trying do verbal escalation as well, suggesting some subjects that can imply sex. After a time, we arrived in the other suburb. We were going to one beach, but in the middle the way we stop at my workplace, a restaurant, to keep my bag there. And from there we went to the beach.
At first we stop in a place, took some pictures, and had some fun. Then we walked until the end of the beach. We were walk and share somethings important to us.
At this point, about kino, I could touch her in almost every place, but none sexual spot.
One thing that I did, learned listening INO1SE, give her a lot off emotion, but balance. So, sometimes we talked about something that made her feel sad, and then I moved quickly for something good. That way she could experiment a bigger experience.
We walked a little bit more in the beach, and the we went to my restaurant, to have our lunch there. There I remembered about be the leader, and I choose for us our meal, drink and dessert.
We had more funny there, took some pictures of us.
In the end of lunch, I told her to close her eyes, and put the gift in her hand. And she really liked the gift. But, I did as I saw in the book The Game, when Ross Jeffries creat one anchoring with the good feelings and one sugar pack. Before this, I tried do some Synesthesia routine with her, but didn't work so well, because has one distraction near there: a baby. And only then I gave the gift to her.
And finally, I went with her to the bus stop. I had to start my work, and she was leaving to go to other city. I didn't say anything, but she told that she wouldn't kiss me. But I could see in her body language that if I forced, I could get my kiss. I only didn't because I wanna see her again, and now, in this moment she is struggling with some relationships issues, and I thought that if I kiss her, she would feel guilty and could make her doesn't wanna see me again, because of shame or something else. She will be back in a couple weeks.
I know that was I really good day to her as well, because she told me this, and more than one day. And of course, because of her smile. Hard to describe.
AND NOW ARE YOU THINKING: WHAT THE COMMUNITY HAVE TO DO WITH THIS?
Everything.
Thanks to pieces of advice, posts, and sharing knowledge I could have one of my best days in my life.
I really feel connect with this girl, and was so natural. We were enjoying ourselves and each other.
Maybe you think that is not a big deal, after all I didn't have sex or even kiss. But I already had sex with other girls before, and, besides the sex, wasn't nothing so special.
And one thing that I know the help me that day, was that a few days ago I red in one topic here to enjoy be with the girl. And I was only thinking about the result and not enjoying the process, and in the end I didn't have nothing good. Mystery says the same, to enjoy the process itself.
Thanks to the community, and others stuff here and there, I could feel comfortable in my own skill since a long time ago. I have getting better in being more natural and confident.
I just think is important say thank because sometimes we expect things from the others, and when we get it, we forget to be grateful. I don't think that the MPUAs need someone to say such thing to them, but is right recognize their efforts in help us here.
And maybe this post can be like a motivation for the newbies in the game, as I am, and give a renew until they see their games going better and better, and see themselves being better as a person.
So, thank you guys. Had I long time that I didn't feel so good.
One thing last: about guilty. How do you handle with? Specially when the girl has a relationship. In my case, that girl has a fiance.
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