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that is just one technique, it is not 100% effective. It's better to have multiple techniques, rather than to rely on the same technique for every situation.
Another possibility is to freeze her out and ask her friend to come out with you instead. I have field tested this, and it worked both times. The girl who originally flaked will either wind up coming out later on to meet you and her friend, or she will text you constantly asking what you are doing, and then be very vigilant about meeting up the next day.
No technique is 100% effective. You are going to experience flakes and it happens and it's no big deal. If you are spending time learning how to turn a flake back into a date, you are wasting a lot of time. Your focus should be on building a rapport that will make the girl not want to flake on you. That improves your pick up skills.
The stronger the rapport, the less likely she is going to flake. The stronger the rapport, the more likely she will cancel plans that she had in order to fit into your schedule.