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PostPosted: Wed Feb 20, 2008 4:19 am 
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There is this girl at my school that i liked and talked to but EVERY time we end a conversation together she always tells me she is gonna call me but she doesnt (happened like 5 times in a row). We have talked on the phone before (i called her sometimes and she called me sometimes) but now we dont cause she never calls when she says she will. Why does she keep adding "i will call you" at the end of every conversation when she has no intention of calling?


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 20, 2008 4:31 am 
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Shes just saying it to be nice. A girl was dating would always say she would call me later and never would. It got annoying. Shes just cat stringin you along. Just don't take it too seriously.


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Kay's right. Play her game right back. Freeze her out. It might be hard at first, but you will be impressed with yourself when you're able to just not call or SMS her for a couple days.

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PostPosted: Wed Feb 20, 2008 4:58 am 
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yup, freeze her. next time u hear from her, if its from a text or phone call. dont answer rigth away. give it a few hours maybe, so she knows shes not priority. give her a good dhv story next time u talk to her.


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There is this girl at my school that i liked and talked to but EVERY time we end a conversation together she always tells me she is gonna call me but she doesnt (happened like 5 times in a row). We have talked on the phone before (i called her sometimes and she called me sometimes) but now we dont cause she never calls when she says she will. Why does she keep adding "i will call you" at the end of every conversation when she has no intention of calling?
A girl I'm seeing right now does this same thing. When we are parting ways, she will look at me and say "I'll call you." Our first date was on a Sunday, she gave me a nice goodnight kiss, then said, "I'll call you." Like a jackass I said, "I hope to hear from you, have a nice night." STUPID REPLY@!! I froze her out without hearing from her all the way until Friday afternoon, I finally called and got her voicemail, and left a message (I almost always get her voicemail). She called me back Saturday afternoon and we arranged to meet again. Now we see each other at least once a week, but it is still rare to talk to each other on text or phone. We have "phone quickies", in other words, we get on the phone, let each other know some time constraint, joke a minute or two, arrange a meetup or some sort of date, and hang up. I guess we both just like saving our material for using in person.

I guess what I'm saying is that just because she says "I'll call you" and then doesn't, you may very likely still be all good.


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 20, 2008 6:47 pm 
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try calling her and end the conversation after about twenty seconds saying "Oh, something just came up. I'll call you back later." This actually worked pretty well for me. It helps to switch the roles.


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