So I'm finally over the last relationship that was sucking the life out of me and now have the opportunity to get back in the dating game with a HB. I used to have a lot of confidence with dating but I've gained some weight since the breakup and currently trying to lose that. I also haven't dated anyone knew since the breakup 3 months ago which includes not having sex (5 months total...yea I know)

Long story short I'm just coming to you guys for some advice. I'm a little nervous and I was hoping to hear from you guys on some good 1st date ideas, conversation, techniques, etc...What do you do on the 1st date? Where do you take them? This is an AFC post to the max and I would of never thought I'd write this 3 years ago. Hope to recover soon and thanks to anyone for there feedback

Hey man,

Look the key to almost anything in life is confidence. Take her somewhere exiting, not one of the super boring normal first dates like dinner and movie (she wont remmember those a year from now) be a guy who's exiting take her one a fun first date like creating your own picnic. go to the market pick the food and learn what she likes and go find a nice park. you get to learn a lot about eachother this way and its not breaking the bank. On the date just be funny if she dosent like your sense of humor then oh well just do what you think is funny and chances are if you laugh after...she will just because your sending good body language. as for the dry spell send small sexual signals in a conversation like " on the way here from the market I noticed you have really fit sexy legs, do you run?" the word sexy sends sexual triggers and will get her thinking. Hope this helps, If you have any more questions just reply.

Good luck,
Justin

Welcome back to the game bud !

Relationships can be very good, but unfurtunately they end sometimes.
What you want to do now is become the best version of yourself you can be so that next time you get into a relationship it can flourish and last very long. Never stop working on yourself.
In my opinion a good relationship is one in which both partners can help eachother grow and become better people.

So lets get into what you need to do now to improve life and meet more women/land a new girlfriend

Start by eating healthy, working on that diet
I recommend hitting the gym as well lifting some weights
Start making new friends or calling up old friends and hanging out around more people makes it easier to meet girls
Go to places were there is girls and do some approaches

You want to make sure you dress to impress, smell good and stuff

Have passions in your life besides girls
Do everything in moderation, dont spend all day picking up girls, do other fun things with your life
But spend a good amount of time chasing women as well

Have balance in your life , girls like a well rounded man

And yeah bro, dont stop chasing booty good luck man and get yourself out thereee and flirt

heres a vid about how to handle a first date, is very good and keeps things simple and to the point

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BWaBL3n ... g9YDyq9y8A

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Cheif (another mod here) actually has a really good guide for first dates which is free, here:

http://chiefpua.com/firstdate/