Hey guys, appreciate anyone who gives this the time of day to read but basically I'm heading out this Wednesday for my birthday.. now I'm usually terrible on a night out trying to attract any sort of female attention, I wouldn't say I'm bad looking i just haven't got the attitude to go out and find girls. Just wondering if anyone got any serious crash course advice for me on approaching and mid-convo? I'm gonna try and memorize one or two routines as I run one by a friend the other day and she advised me to try it when I'm out and use a birthday badge and a buffer if things go bad... Once again appriciate any help

Anything guys?:)

Not like I can write a giant essay here as a 'crash course'... So this is certainly a Coles Notes version:

Don't wait for your birthday.

If you're just starting out you're gonna mess up - it's part of the learning process...

Start now. Flirt with everything that moves.

The most important thing you can do (after approaching, if things are going well) is escalate. Touch her (not inappropriately)... touch her lots and build comfort. Escalate touching to kissing and so on...

I would recommend searching this forum for 'approach anxiety' and kino... And also read the escalation ladder: http://www.vindicarlo.com/DiCarlo%20Esc ... lo.com.pdf

thanks a lot man, checked out the escalation and i'll try and do some digging on here