Before midnight lat night, I spoke to a HB8 for 10 minutes and at midnight she kissed me, quite passionately tongues etc. I stopped her after about 6 seconds as I girl I matched on tinder was behind me...

I left after to find my friend, then as I was about to leave that night, went to find her again. Kissed her, got her number and kissed her again - this time her cutting it short.

Only for relevance, her favourite band was blink-182.

I texted her when I got home saying:

"Blink 182, really?..."

She replied: "Are we about to fall out? "

I said "Not if you say it ain't so... "

She replied "See what you did there. See you can't resist a bit of blink "

I replied "Dammit, I'll get you into real music "

She said "I have a great taste in music "

I said "We'll see... How much longer are you in town?"

She replied "Ah I leave on the 4th"

I said "It's my birthday tomorrow. But let's do something Saturday?"

She replied "Happy birthday for tomorrow! Ah I'm busy Saturday night"

I just replied "Just in he gym. Give you a call later if you like"

I'm guessing that was too much. I meant purely to sort something out. Not just for leisure. She saw this message 5 hours ago and still hasn't replied. What would you guys suggest - bearing in mind she leaves Sunday?

She seemed really keen last night, she grabbed my leg/crotch and let me grab her arse while I was kissing her. I plan on going out tomorrow night with my mate to try and meet some more girls. But how should I play this? Shall I just say, my friends and I are doing this tonight, come and join us?

I'm getting a bit depressed at thought of having blown this. I was quite ecstatic last night - I am a virgin and have only kissed 4 girls now. All within a year, so I've come a long way, but there's still a long way to go.


Update

I've just got a reply from her saying "Starting off the New Year right ! Have a good birthday "

Is she talking about 'starting off right' by this new potential relationship? Or about me going to the gym?

I always go to the gym. Bodybuilding/ weight training is my life.

You're totally projecting what you'd like it to mean onto what she actually meant.

She meant you're going to the gym, man.

Your mistake was not closing the deal on new years eve... That was probably your only shot.

You were "a good way to ring in the new year" the other night.

Now you're "a guy from the bar" the other night.

Always close when you can.

I'd advise you to just call her man. You're overthinking this a lot. Just call the girl.. She seems to be really into you. Call her, talk to her and see if she wants to meet up. This doesn't even qualify to be posted. I honestly think you have this under control.

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Thanks I just teased her then said

"Fancy a coffee soon?"

She said "you'll have to come up for London for though"

I replied "shit I guess you'll have to buy me dinner too..."

She said "okay if you buy lunch "

Went on like this for a bit

Then I asked her if she liked the strokes and she replied

She said "Don't worry haha this is the part where we fall out because I don't really listen to them but I do think they're good"

I said "Okay, you're gonna have to redeem yourself somehow.."

I replied "Hmm I dunno. You're gonna have to really impress me..."

She says "How...?"

She seems like defeatist, she told me she had a bad year with boys last year when I met her, how shall I reply? Do I compliment her for jumping through my hoops?

She isn't a defeatist, she is playing your own game and in fact beating you.

Enough with the bravado and just bloody arrange a meet up if you're willing to travel to London.

You're over gaming and complicating things by adding hoops that you created in the 1st place.

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I think you're stretching it out. Sounds like she's gone tomorrow and busy today. Logistics aren't good, and you're next opportunity will be if you go to London. Right now, your stretching a 10 minute interaction and midnight kiss to a complicated long distance thing. Don't treat it so seriously. If you go to London hit her up. But the way you're gaming her is as if she lived in your city and you were pursuing something serious with her.

You're doing what most guys do that EVERY girl hates... Looking too deeply and attaching too much meaning to a phone number and a make out. (and on New Years... cmon man. I'm surprised she even remembered you the next day.)

She gave you her phone number. Not her hand in marriage. Chill out or you're gonna creep her out (if you haven't already)