A vast majority of people (men) believe we live in a materialistic world where women and people in general respond to men of many possessions. Such as an expensive car, an expensive suit, an expensive house, the list goes on and on. This is somewhat true to a certain extent. People respond to the ATTITUDE they acquire from owning these things rather than the actual object, which to our luck is under our own control. We can control our behaviour and mold our attitude into any desired shape. Which is hard work itself but we take for granted our ability as humans to basically do whatever we want with hard work. Many search for the answer in all corners of life. Wether it's being financially free or physically appealing. The real answer lies within ourselves. We have to expose ourselves the way we wish to be seen. For some people this means to change themselves and their personality, for some it just means to understand how to portray themselves to the world. We live in a world where we depend on other people to "go places." To get a good deal on a car, you have to make the dealer believe you deserve a good deal. Wether that means lying about your true self or exposing a real quality, you have to do it. If you want a woman to choose you over someone else, you have to make yourself the prize. This all lies in your attitude. This is basically what is reffered to in the community as inner game. To further understand inner game and learn how to control it, Zip and L.A. Tripp have written a detailed article on it.

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