Ok short and sweet:

I met a girl at her work. We had instant chemistry. Awesome chat. I called there a week later and she remembered me and was excited to hear from me. I made a joke that she laughed at then said I'd like to buy her coffee sometime (she was at work so wanted to get off the phone quick). She couldn't have been more happy said that would be awesome and she'd love to. I said well you have my number and she said well give it to me again so I know I have the right one. I did then let her get back to work. I got off the phone thinking that could NOT have gone better.

That was a week ago...

No call from her...

Now I know we should have set a day and time when we were on the phone but she was at work and with the holidays I figured it would take a while to figure out a good day.

So here I am wondering if she just feels weird calling a boy and wishes I'd contact her or if she really just acted that excited to go out with me. Should I Facebook message her or just let it go??

I can't explain this one...

You're pretty vague. Why were you at her work? Why does she interested from your point of view? What made you call her at work? I'm betting that if you answer those questions, it'll be very explainable.

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The specifics of her work don't matter but I will say that my going there and my calling for a follow up question were both normal. She seemed interested because of her tone and her words. She said she'd love to and it sounded awesome.

They do matter. Let's say that her job was a stripper. Her job is to be flirty and show interest in order to liberate your cash from you. She will even say meeting up at some point sounds great in order for you to have hope.

You're the one that is asking for insight. There's something that you don't understand and you need help. You are smart enough to ask, so be smart enough to answer followup questions. My hope would be to help you out if I can. If you don't want it, I won't lose sleep over it. I'll just hope it all works out for you.

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I do appreciate your time and any help you can give or anyone else.

Anyway she is a dentist. I went for a checkup. Called with follow up question. Asked her out. And the call went as well as you can hope for. Honestly. I just knew for a fact she was going to call when she got off that day. At this point I'm as much curious as anything.

In general, women at work are going to be nice and quite often give misinterpreted or false signs of interest. The thing that you should have done to confirm that interest is get her phone number and let her know that your intent is to meet up for coffee. At that point she would have to back up that interest by complying or she would make an excuse on why she couldn't give it to you.

The fact that you put money in her pocket is a big reason to give you false hope because she wants your business.

I'm not saying that she isn't interested. I'm saying that there are reasons why she may give false interest. I'm sure you are not the first patient that has tried to meet up with her outside of her work and if she says no to meeting up, she may lose a customer.

Next time you speak to her ask for her phone number. If she gives it to you there is more of a chance that she is interested, but you'll never truly know until you set up a day and time and she actually meets up with you.

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Yeah I hindsight I really should've gotten her number. I guess part of me wanted to test her interest.

So here I am... Should i (based on her excited reply sincere or not) Facebook message her? Give it all one more shot? Or should I cut my losses and just give up? I know I've heard stories of girls feeling weird about calling guys. So maybe that's it and face booking her would solve that. Not sure what I'd say though at this point.

Plus I find it most odd that when I said that she had my number that she said for me to give it to her again just in case. If she didn't plan on calling then why say that at all?

I'm not a fan of handing the responsibility to the woman to call me and then contacting her when she doesn't call. I'd think that she really wasn't as interested as she let on. Personally, I would take it as a lesson learned. I'm not saying that's the only option...but that's how I'd handle it at this point.

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She's a girl. She's a flakey girl. It just is the way it is. Girls flake on guys and other girls all the time.

Theres really nothing you can do. That's just the type of person she is.