I'm in a bit of a tight spot and wondered if you guys could help.

I was out with some buddies sarging on Saturday night. I have a long term girlfriend (who doesn't know about my hobby), so I just wing my guys, open a few sets and end the night holding aloft as many phone numbers as i can. Hope you can appreciate that and don't think I'm an AFC for not cheating on my girlfriend.

Only thing is I opened an HB on the bus on the way home, and we just talked and talked. I didn't game her consciously, but looking back I DHVd a lot without using any routines and got in the laughs and kino. I also told her how I'd got roped into a speed dating event at a party that night (true) and made her tease out of me that my phone was a few numbers heavier (true and social proof). So she couldn't wait to give me hers, and even suggested I get off with her 2 stops later and walk back ( which I didn't of course). I liked her a lot.

3 days later I call her (which I never do), and she's keen to hang out any time I want.

So now we have a daytime coffee date for the day after tomorrow. I specified daytime 'cos I don't want events to progress too far.

Thing is I reckon she'll ask about my status, or whether i live alone. So my question to you guys is - what do I say?

The situation with my (8 Years) long-term girlfriend is complicated. She's like part of my family. My folks love her, my neices adore her; we own our house together. But for me the spark just isn't there. I care about her, but I'm not in love with her.

In The Game, Style always told his girls that he was sleeping with other girls, but I reckon it would be hardcore game to pull off telling the new HB that I am not single. I mean if someone tells you they went speed dating then tells you that they have a live-in girlfriend what would you think? I don't really want to lie to her (another one of Style's rules).

Do I:

a) tell her that my situation is complicated and try to leave it at that or change the subject.
b) tell her the truth
c) lie through my teeth and hope we don't ever run into one of my girlfriend's friends and watch the dagger eyes fly.

What should I do???

Any help and advice greatly appreciated.

Thanks

Discreet

Oh and even though THIS IS ALL REAL. please feel free to use it as a "jealous girlfriend" type opener. I think it would a be great new emotional trigger. Girls have strong opinions on cheating males, BUT they always love soppy romantic films which justify a lonely married WOMAN in an unhappy marriage having a passionate relationship with the gardener or whoever! So:-

" Hi I need a female opinion on something cos my friend is really in a situation...He's got a long term girlfriend and got suckered into a speed dating event. He never intended to follow up on any of the speed-daters but the trouble is he got talking to a girl on the bus home...etc...etc... "