I know a girl is with some guy, but I recently started gaming her (after she showed attraction). Today I wanted to ask her out but she let me know she will spend this week with bf. She gave me detailed answers, while including smileys. I'm now confused. Why was she telling me this? She could've just said she's busy. It is known that girls usually mention bf if they don't want to be hit on. But again why would she bother giving me long answers instead of simply rejecting me. Any ideas?

Dont worry to much about it. Go talk to other girls and after the weekend try getting her out again. If she gives you any excuses the second time shes not interested.

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It is your responsibility to find out whether the girl is available at the initial contact, in my opinion. Only then, can you progress. Some people may disagree, however in reality, gaming girls with a girlfriend isn't either smart, or cool.

Hit up some more girls in the mean time.

my 2 cents on this topic is to go out and pursue other women, and come back to this another time.

gaming girls with bf's is a iffy topic. nevertheless her bringing it up is like her putting up a barbed fence and wanting to see what you're going to do. where that fence will turn around 80% of guys, you've got grab your balls and break through that shit like a shit test. when i'm talking to a girl i find attractive and she throws something like that, i usually reply with "Such matters have never really concerned me" which basically can mean anything from you're not interested in her to you having a bf doesn't matter to me. leaves it up in the air and gives you the alpha position

A girl saying that she has a boyfriend doesn't necessarily mean she wants you to back off. It's their way of being up front and honest about their current situation. It wipes away her guilt if you actually do seduce her. It will allow her to live with the "it just happened" excuse.

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