Hi a little bit about myself. I consider myself intermediate at game because i believe there is so much more for me to learn, 20 years old and do quite well with women just need some advice with roadbumps when texting women.

Okay so here is where i need advice, i am texting a girl who i have previously hooked up with (we've made out several times in the past never escalated into sex because i was a chump) i know she is attracted to me, and decided to reconnect with her over christmas break. I got her number over twitter(easily) and decided to text her the next day.

This is where i need help, she responded with a semi-big text saying that she should of not gave me her number, she "kinda have this thing with someone and i shouldn't have given you my number..." and continued to explain why she is "trying" not to talk to someone else then wished me a happy holiday. i took this as a shit text and responded with "such things have never concerned me" . she then responded with two small texts saying i'm confused, please elaborate.

I responded with a big text about 2 hours later (i think this is where i fucked up because i didn't really know what to say) talking about how if we hypothetically hung out we'd have a great time together because we're both fun and have that great chemistry and worst case scenario we would have a lot of fun and you'll still be taking to your guy. Then ended it with either way though no strings attached let's hangout no big deal if we end up as friends that is totally cool, i could always use good female friends etc. (summed up)

She responded with haha you make a good argument. ok. which threw me off a little and then i said we need to blaze this break together, she then didn't respond . (i know she smokes because we have smoked in the past)

now i need your help guys on what to do, or what kind of recovery text i should send. and i would love you guys to critique me on mistakes i made to get better thanks brahs

anonymousani

All you can do now is wait a few days then text her something cocky n funny. Wait until she replies, talk a little bit more than ask her to hangout.

That or you can wait a few days then call her and ask her to hang out.

I can't read what you guys texted however it seemed ok because she responded everytime until the last one. Low interest could be the case.

thanks looks like that's what i'm going to end up doing and pretty much 80% of what was texted i put in here except not all of the big text i sent. i will let you know what happens in a few days.

any cocky funny lines that works for you in situations like this?

Seriously - I think she has blown you off as politely as possible.

I do not think that was a shit test. I think she's not interested. Your big text proposing the hypothetical was a good effort, but she again blew you off politely, then stopped replying to you.

Sorry man, not what you wanted to hear, probably...

Always possible I'm mis-reading this and another user may have another opinion... (But I don't think so!)

you're probably right to be honest, oh well time to replace not chase.

she did respond last night, my last text to her was "plus who else is gonna smoke this and eat sushi with me" and sent a picture bong i recently bought. she responded "many people. sounds like a good time!"

EDIT: I waited till the next day and sent "i miss you and wanna see you, but this dumb security guard won't let me in the zoo. is there any way you can escape?" i thought it was pretty funny, haven't got a response probably not appropriate to say i miss you in this situation lol oh well fuck it learning experience

I see a similar text routine on this forum quite frequently. I am not a fan of that text. Same one with the aliens taking the good looking people. All you can do now is wait for a reply. I would def look at pursuing other women and this one up again in a week.

Man... you had the gas pedal to the FLOOR... You got passed up. Downshifted into third and took back the lead. Then you slammed on the fucking brakes right before you crossed the finish line!!!

You need a crash course in negotiating and over coming objections, my friend.

She brought up the obstacle. You climbed over the obstacle. Then you just stood still with your thumb up your ass.

Next time, you go for the head. Once she says "good point." you say "See. I'm always right. It'll be our little secret. Now come over and smoke a bowl with me. Bring a lighter cause I can't find one." You move forward and give her a new objection to throw at you to over come... In this case the lighter.

She might say "haha I don't have a lighter either."

To which you say... "No big deal. Stop at the gas station on your way. I'll give you 2 bucks when you get here."

And you just keep going. You took "no" for an answer wayyyy to easily my dude.

holy shit this was probably the best answer i've gotten. you are totally right with that, damn smooth texts too. wish you were here days ago hahah i've got to take notes

EDIT: That definitely would of work with this girl, unfortunately it's too late to make those moves. my plan was to reboot it, it's been like 5 days. do you have any advice on how to reboot this?

It's smooth because I'm not trying to be smooth

all you've gotta do is hit her up and text her the same way you would any one of your other friends to hang out. Don't think smooth. Think natural. Think quick. No pussy footing around. No "game." Smooth is fast. Fast is smooth.

Get the girl alone. Let nature take its course.