Well here is a live report from an hour ago: a friend of mine who happens to be very good looking and well endowed picked up an extremely hot Korean girl on the street. She immediately said "You are such a beautiful man, and only ugly guys and black guys hit on me" (no offense to black guys but this was actually what she said)

I saw her pic she was very young and very pretty. He then went to her apartment within 15 minutes and banged her and got a very intense BJ. Then she said she had to go to work (bartender) and kicked him out.

So there you go fellas. Looks matter in some cases.

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1. Body (mostly correctable[height/hair exception)
2. Her type (things like facial similarity, demeanor, style, scent) [there is little you can do to universally improve your odds with this, aside from avoiding weird shit].
3. Face (objective beauty, also mostly beyond control[not totally, skin care, hair cut, contacts,etc])
4. Style (%100 correctable)

I don't know what you guys mean by "Body" being the most important. This guy who pulled the hot Korean is tall (6'1) but very skinny. He has very broad shoulders though which make him appear much bigger. Looks like Christian Bale.

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Most guys are not good looking. Most guys have average sized cocks.

I think the problem with “looks matter” is that most guys mishear it as:

You have to be a born superhandsome chiseled male model to get laid, or otherwice accept having an ugly girlfriend you have to get by begging for months

It might be more constructive to say “You have to be her type to attract her”. Because that’s what it’s really about. It’s about dispelling the notion that you can “create attraction”.

And also what “looks matters” means is that your most fit, in shape version will be more attractive than an out-of-shape version of you… But that’s unfortunately not how guys read it.

They read it as “so you’re saying I have to be Brad Pitt to get laid at all” -> which is why they get so defensive.

I left one out, so what “looks matters really means is”, as I said:

1) You have to be her type physically, and that’s individual to every woman
2) The most fit version of you will attract a lot more women than an out-of-shape version of you (all else being equal)

***And I left out***

3) Looks matters means you generally have to be within 3 points from the girl.

- So to get a 10, its possible at most if you’re a 7, though most likely if you’re an 8 or a 9.

- Fortunately this isn’t so defeatist or bad as your physique goes into your overall looks. If you’re a 5 naturally (face, body symmetry etc), getting a great physique can make you a 7… So even a “natural 5″ can become attractive enough to date 10s.

- Though anyone who has any experience with women will tell you that LITERALLY in real life you get NO additional joy or pleasure out of banging 10s than you do 8s, or even 7s… really. A cute 7 that has a tight body, you’ll feel just as great banging her as a 10…

Like anyone with good sexual experience will confirm this to you, there’s literally zero additional benefit to banging 10s, you don’t feel better, the orgasms aren’t any better… they’re not better to cuddle with than 8s… really.

So really, there’s no reason to ever feel bad about the fact that looks matter, it doesn’t mean you’re doomed to a shitty sex life.

All that “looks matter means is

1) “Don’t be an obese slob that dresses like a bum, going around ONLY hitting on 10s and 9s, then crying about getting nowhere”

2) Don’t take it personally if you don’t attract a girl, you’re simply not her type. There’s nothing she or you can do about it, it’s just mismatching DNA… that’s it, nothing to take personally.

There are hundreds of millions of girls who are hot to other guys, but you can’t get turned on by them, because they’re just not your type. Despite there being nothing unattractive about these girls – they’re just NOT YOUR TYPE.

Build an emotional connection through your hard throbbing cock.
Build trust and comfort by holding their hands and covertly rubbing your elbows on their nipples.