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this may sound hypocritical thats true for guys that looks and money arent as important as women care more for vibe and energy and charisma, but for women it is more important for one very simple reason... 99% of the time men approach women and the thing is the guy will judge whom he will and wont approach based more on what she looks like. i know that makes guys more shallow but sadly its true. open a mens magazine like gq, maxim, fhm and so on the girls on its pages look like Kate Upton, Kendall Jenner, Emily Ratajkowski.
you're right but think of it like this. The idea of "beauty" is fading because women are getting butthurt that magazines and shit are portraying a false idea of beauty. Many guys like girls who look like Kate Upton but i guarantee you 90% of those guys would never and i mean NEVER approach her even if she wasn't famous.
the average guy has waaay less confidence than the average woman because we go through so much rejection, Most guys want a 10 but really settle for approaching 5-6's because they feel they arent
even worthy of standing next to a 9-10.
anyway looks for women aren't as important as we men think because ugly girls find love easily, it's not like the movies portray atleast where im from. The ugly most hideous girls have boyfriends while the beautiful sexy women are either hopelessly single or treated as sexual objects.
Guys who would be considered attractive usually end up with really low looking girls because those same guys don't feel attractive
also saying that men are shallow gets completely overpowered by the fact that we are the hunters. hunters don't look at their prey and say "hmmm that deer looks like it might be nice, and won't even put up a fight because he';s understanding oh and he might have money in his stomach" -_- no a hunter says "that deer looks fat and tasty" Plus the average man put in ALOT of work just to get a date from a woman. Where as a woman will judge you down to the bare minimum before she even gives you her damn number even making a mental list of all your flaws and all your strenghs lmfao
but i enjoy that, i enjoy the hunt lmao
also if you read a woman's magazine you'll see those same women in their lol women know what's beautiful as much as men