1. Reading up on all you can about pickup can actually be harmful to your game. I use to read about almost every style and their step by step processes an the psychology behind them. What to do in this situation what to do in that situation exc exc. It got me so over stimulated I would freeze up when I thought I was ready. But now I only read up on situations I've experienced and not ones that could happen. This has givin me more confidence In my game than being textbook ready ever did.

2. Go out even if you don't want to. Personally I fall into habits easily. So if I stay in one weekend the chance doubles I'll do it again next weekend. Don't even have to do approaches. Just chill out listen to the band if there is one an have a beer.

3. Don't depend on your friends to whip you in shape. No one is more motivated to achieve your goals than yourself. I made this mistake an when I got bailed on here an there It would hit hard an feel a bit hopeless. But once I took control an said this is my goal and only I can achieve it things turned around.

4. Be honest. Pretending to be something your not always comes back around and bites you in the ass. And that situation when the girl wants a relationship but all you want is the game. You don't have to lie or lead them on for a second hook up. This girl I picked up an have been f-closing each nite for the past 3 days brought up she wanted to know what we were an that she wasn't a booty call. The next day when I picked her up for our plans we had. I took her aside an told her that she's an awesome chick an I like her being around but I'm not looking for a relationship. Yes she got pissy for the duration of the outing but I was not phased by it an before it was over she was flirting with me again and f-closed for a fourth night.

5. Chicks make by far better wingmen than guys. They don't even have to really do anything aside from not being a cock block. Just them being out with you even if they are ugly or fat you will do so much better. That preselection crap, it works!

6 Some times girls can get pissy when you approach them. But did you know they also get pissy when you don't approach them? I'm serious about this. If they are giving you the eye an you just pass by because you don't want to interrupt them with their friend or what ever reason you made up on the spot to not talk to them. Just do another swing around an catch their eye again. This time around it won't be the "your cute come talk to me" look, it will be the "you missed your chance wimp an if u try now ill rip your skull out" look. This just got me more motivated to approach. It started to feel almost rude not to.

7. Confidence! If you are just starting out just fake confidence and you will feel better. Fake that confidence long enough it becomes real and you will "do" better!

Many lessons seem to materialize from going out. I have a book at my nightstand and I am constantly fueling my mind. It definitely helps with something to say when out. One of the best things I have found is to occupy your time with your core purpose. When out, I just speak about what I am passionate about and use the law of state transference in all my dealings. Some women will like you and some wont. Regardless, it is okay.

That also is a really good one! It kinda gos along with the first thing on my list as well. Over doing it with study you over flow your head with pickup an it becomes the only thing you can really talk about. An seeing how its a bad idea to talk about picking up girls to the girl your trying to pick up. Having other goals and passions is ideal.

The thing with PU is that, someone is making profit, and sadly, there is a lot of bad info out there. What I like about rsd is the massive amount of free content and events. They offer a lot of hidden gems (self amuse, freedom from out come, no reason why your not more then enough). I am a bit torn on the preaching of abundance. Its like, I have to have women in my life in order to attract more or for pre selection. I know this does work but, I like John Cooper's genuine approach of autonomy. It just comes from a different place. I do like Mystery cause, I feel he inspired the start of all this but, I do not do routines or magic. I don't peacock or feel the need to dress outrageous in order to seek a reaction. I don't neg but, I do give women shit (most recently, women I picked up online date). Women are a part of my life but, they do not define me or the life I live.

Liked what you said about going out even when you don't feel like it.

It's essential, to get the reference experiences to improve your game. That way even when you think you aren't improving your game. You actually are.

(Thanks for the John Cooper video mention looks like real good information)

I wonder if preselection actually means anything. I haven't been out much the last year, both due to the fact that I have a girlfriend, kids to take care of and that I KNOW that my game is close to perfect these days. I went out with a friend a couple of weeks ago, first time in over 6 months, maybe a year, and the first set we opened, it only took like 5-10 minutes until a girl wanted to make out. I had to disappoint her with the "sorry but I already have a girlfriend" excuse. Events like this make me wonder whether preselection actually matters at all. Not that I want to brag, but to me it all seems to be about that abundant attitude.

W You are unavailable making you more attractive. If you have options, she is challenged to stand out, and at the very least, act proper or pretend to or leave. I watched a skit with Tai Lopez talking about entitlement in LA. You got a family. Assuming, the situation is great, she is a good woman, it gives you the big happy, rock on brother. Good for you.

great man!
i really like your conclusions, because its something that can be learned only by going out massively!
2-3 talks about self-reliance, relaying on yourself and knowing you can deal with anything life throws at you.
one of the best gamers I have ever met- an absolute beast become like this by massive, massive! self-reliance. he was making himself go out alone as much as he can!
not only that, but he put himself on the hardest situations-like entering a nightclub alone, not knowing anyone at the entrance.
do it guys! it would change your life...

but yeah, because we are so not used to be alone, when we go out with friends we are not relaxed enough to act 100% because we are always worrying about where our friends disappeared.

start relaying on yourself-go out alone!

regarding #6-beautifuly done! you just reframed a massive sticking point. I'm living in a country which considered to have the rudest nastiest girls in the world! lot, but believe me, they want love and affection like any other girl. just stay in the interaction a little longer, but also be smart about it. if she is giving you a red light from the beginning and leaving you with very little to work with, it may be smarter to just approach another girl. get back to her later as you said.

good job man!

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