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Forget routines unless they are authentic to you and your experiences. Things that may happened or you used on your own having created the routine through your own experiences. I have a variety of things I say or have done that are awesome but, its not a necessity. Something to think about. Likely, any routine you find online or through pu has been done before. She got the bumper sticker. Something new and original is refreshing.
I feel like you did not do enough in the micro interactions you already had. Introduce yourself. Make small talk. Exit cause, working out is your main priority for being there, and the approach again the next time you see her. Get talking about what you do. Extend the olive branch.
Hey dude, I just saw her a while ago and we talked for a bit. I asked her about art (shes a graphic designer and Im a musician) so I asked her "Do you consider yourself an artist?" and then we talked for a while. I also tried to escalate kino by showing her how do I warm up for guitar practice (grabbed her arm and do the same excercises and massages I do when warming up) She let me do it and I kept a close eye contact while touching her.
At the end, when she was going to leave , she said "hey goodbye" and I approached to her and asked if she was free today because I was taking this dog I took from the streets for a walk and Im trying to make him more social to people (he might have traumas with people because he reacts kinda weird and aggresive except with my family). So I asked her if she wanted to come with me, and she said "well I gotta go and buy xmas stuff... at what time? " I told her "At 4pm" and she said "yeah, If im done with all the shopping lets go, If not Ill see you tomorrow, give me your number" . I didnt remember my number so I grabbed a piece of paper and a pen and used her shoulder as a desk and said "ok give me yours Ill call you at 3" . She gave me her number and then we said goodbye.
Right or wrong?