Heres what to do on a first date with a girl who's down to meet up with ya

Alot of guys get nervous about this but the truth is dates are awsome and in this vid laz explains how to enjoy a date, what to expect, and how to succeed in every single date !

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BWaBL3n ... g9YDyq9y8A

Hope you enjoyed it and apply this in your future endeavors !

Now tell me, how did your last date turn out?

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quite honestly, movies suck as first dates anyway. i know talking can be awkward on a first date, but that's what one can do to get comfortable and movies provide no chance to talk. i'm sure buying her coffee and taking a walk would suffice, but if you're not comfortable with that, bowling is absolutely a good idea! if you have the same friend group, invite a few along so the conversation won't be so limited and awkward. believe me i am girl

actually, I went to the movies on my first date with my current FB.
I made sure we arrived on time in the theater so I could build some comfort and kino ( just touching shoulder/arms) before the movie started.
During the boring parts of the movie I kept talking to her. Building more comfort.
And ...well no need to explain any further what happened after the movies

I guess it's just the mindset, because I did allot of research on movie dates on this forum and was convinced it was possible to show her a great time on a movie date.

there is a great post on movie dates, just 'search' it


But I still prefer Ice skating as a first date

Anything can be a first date guys, i believe a successful first date is a date in which BOTH of you have fun and end up wanting to spend more time with eachother in the end.

For a MPUA like me, my dates have a high chance of me sleeping with the girl, but thats because i know how to get that result through proper logistical encounter/goodvibes/sexual escalation/flirting/leading ect.

But for a begginer i would like to stress the important of simply having a good time, as i described in detail in the video.

Because no matter how much you suck at PUA skills, if you SHOW the girl a good time she will sleep with you eventually because she will want to keep hanging out.

So as a MPUA i focus on showing her a good time while trying to lead things in my favor / end up in my bed.

But if she isnt jumping through my hoops, i simply keep vibing and build more comfort

Not every girl will sleep with you the first date, many of them wont, many of them will

I simply present the idea at some point, maybe twice to make sure where her head is at

But ill say it again, the purpose of the date should be to have a good time and keep seeing eachother again, that will eventually lead to sex

But for noobies ill recommend flirting alot during the date, maybe a little kino here and there/ hugs/highfives that way you dont end up in the ultimate friendzone, but besides that is pretty simple, have a BLAST and enjoy the female.

The worst thing you can do is get stuck in your head thinking about what technique to use to achieve an outcome, that will never work.

Go with the flow, have fun, flirt, lead, see how she's feeling and suggest things to do. If she doesnt seem ready for more intimacy yet, finish the date strong(good vibe) and see her another day

But if she seems to be having a good time, always suggest going back to your place towards the end of the date to see if she complies, say ur gona get drinks or watever excuse, once your back at your place keep vibing having fun and slowly escalate and go for the sex

This will useually work but dont get all needy, if she doesn't sleep with you she will eventually if you dont become a creeper, I useually try 3 times befor i call it quits on any attempt to do anything, also pay attention to how she is feeling and acting is pretty common sense, dont give up so easily though.

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I wish I could read this days ago.

That's what happened with me. I was so worried about it what should be my next step and get the result (kissing closer) that I turn a good moment in a weird moment. Now I think I won't see that girl anymore...

Exactly !!
No worries, happens to everyone in pick up, we get so focused on a certain outcome but forget that the MAIN KEY is to have a good time.

Use the principles of pick up but never get too caught up on it and always think after the event.

Trail and error

A quote im really loving now is

"Shoot first, ask questions later"

It just means, take action, freeflow, enjoy yourself, and think about what went wrong or right - afterwards

Glad this could help and good luck in the future !

Keep up the good vibes !

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For me, I've found what I do on a first date depends on the girl and situation. If I'm talking to a girl from work for a while and I ask her out, I can get away with a movie date, and take her back to mine. At that point the "date" is just really a formality.... I'm in. If it's a girl I met at the bar or during the day can do something a little more interesting than a movie, maybe drinks or bowling, and then back to mine. For a girl from online, typically got to do the whole walking, multiple venues thing, time distortion thing. So I think it depends on what you need to build. If it's a girl youve known for a while, attraction and comfort is there, so you just have to seduce. If it's a girl you've met in person before at the bar, attraction is there, so just build comfort (drinks, bowling) and seduce. If it's an online girl, you gotta build attraction, comfort and seduce because you're literally meeting for the first time which is different than over messages. At least that's just how I think of it and works for me.

Exactly, simple and enjoyable dates, somewere close to a sex location / if the vibe and escalation is right you have the opportunity to pull for the close. Not every girl will sleep with you the first night but every girl will be flattered with the option, so always present the option in case she bites.

If we're having a really good time i useually suggest going back to my place, and if she lets me escalate to a hardcore makeout, is easy to know then and there you should pull the trigger and suggest going back to yours or hers, if the vibe seems right.

Keep up the good work guys
Be sex worthy

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