hi guys

Strange question, but if you consider yourself as good looking and if you spot a girl eye contacting you, do you really need to throw any negs, or just to make sure your value would be higher, should throw a weak one?

I have been realising, most of the young guys are hooked on porn and their self esteem and interest to women is getting lower and lower, I believe this new generation are not chasing girls as they used to be and consequently girls are more open not to conversations...

SO, SHOULD YOU THROW NEGS IF YOU FEEL EYE CONTACT OR MINIR IOIS FROM THE TARGET, OR YOU JUST START THE KINO ESCALATION ASAP?

ANY COMENTS WOULD BE MUCH APRECIATED

Stop shouting!

You don't need negs. The only time you would ever need to use them is if you are dealing with a stuck up bitch who has a massive ego.

You can flirt with sarcasm instead.

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Don't use negs even if you're not good looking. Being above a woman with a foul attitude is neg enough.

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Yes good looking guys can and should use negs.

Good looking guys should neg themselves so that each values are obtainable for her

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I love negs lol. I do them in a fucking OBVIOUSLY joking kind of way though. I wouldn't say something like "You'd look good if you fixed your hair colour" - that's a dick move. Instead I say *credit to Gambler* something along the lines of "I like your skin. It's so soft. It reminds me of a slug" with a playful smirk on my face. I usually do it in the flirting/banter stage though...

Another time I'd neg, is times like this (this happened the other day): I lost my boner with a girl like 5 times in a night. I just wasn't on top form this night. We've had sex a lot so she didn't care that much. However, she made a joke to me about it (just a test, I know) ...she then went on to tell me how soft her hair is, so I said "yea your hair is always soft, it's real smooth and oily" (I said it like it was meant to be a compliment, as a neg should be) ...I then acted like I realised how bad it sounded, and said "Well not so much oily... more like...." she tried to fix it for me and said "Conditioned?" so I said "Nah, like a shiny kind of oily, in a good way" and laughed at her.

The second one is childish, in my opinion, but the old me would have lost his shit and said sorry 100 times for losing a boner lol. Infact, I did lose a boner back in 2010 with a girl, which resulted in a massive drop in my sexual confidence, and £150 worth of viagra for my next few lays. So even though it's still wrong to neg (probably) in that situation, it's better than what I would've done 4 years ago, right?

Negs are fine, as long as you know the fine line between a playful neg, and just being a prick because you're insecure and want her to feel the same way. Doesn't matter how attractive you are.

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

I tease and I flirt. Not sure if most consider that a "neg", nor do I care very much.

What is it with all the peeps asking about negs in here lately. Have we stepped into a time machine and are back in the year 1998?

Usually it's a good sign that lots of people are asking about negs. It's a concept people hear about through mainstream media, so I take it as a sign that more noobs are getting into game, which is good in the long run, as it will keep the community alive. But obviously in the short term, we have to deal with repetitive questions about Mystery Method.

depending on the situation you definitely dont want to just jump straight to kino

i personally dont "neg" i use other ways to break rapport - negs can come across as insulting to a girl especially if she thinks you are hotter than her.

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I can't think of any scenario where it is inappropriate to touch the girl's arm for example when you are teasing her/in agreement with her/in disagreement with her/any other reason. You have to be socially calibrated, but the sooner you can go kino in a non creepy manner the better.

Actually, yes you do.

Too many guys are afraid to touch.

Touching a woman (the RIGHT way, properly calibrated) is the most powerful thing you can do to build attraction, and the QUICKER you do it, the easier it will be to escalate later on.

he beat us all to it

getting a girl to laugh without telling random jokes is the best way to build attraction

negs are for AFCs as ironic as that sounds lol

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