Okay, I know this girl in college, but first off I just want to say that I'm not trying to pick her up and I'm not looking for that sort of advice. I'm just curious about her situation!

Anyway, there's this girl in my class in college in her mid-20s, who pretends to be single, and every time she goes out to niteclubs tends to kiss a different guy each nite. From what I've seen, she's kissed at least 5 or 6 different guys from my class over the past 3 months, but I don't think she's sleeping around! I always see her heading home on her own or with her own friends after a night out, so I don't think she sleeps with any of these guys.

The thing is she actually has a boyfriend, who is not on my college course! I found this out from a reliable friend who knows her quite well and actually went to school with her. Anyway, she actually lives with her boyfriend in his apartment and has been in a relationship with him for the past 3 years! My friend also told me that she always says how much she loves her boyfriend, and that she appears to be in a serious, loving relationship. However, obviously the boyfriend is unaware that she regularly kisses other guys, as he is never around if she goes out with our college class.

My friend also said that she's the type of girl that knows what she wants and knows how to get it. Apparently, she can be quite ruthless when it comes to men.

So, what's the deal with these type of girls? (Again, I'm not interested in this girl at all - I'm just curious what her agenda is?)

Is she a female PUA?

She's a female player I guess, or a whore as they say. I know one thing though, I sure as hell wouldn't want to be her boyfriend ...though I'd keep her on my fuck roster if I knew her and could game her

This girl is not all that uncommon, and it's the exact reason that making out with a chick in a club doesn't amount to much.

She's not a female "PUA".... or maybe she is, if you define it in a MM type way. Where mostly you're out to get attention, not laid.

She likes feeling sexy and desirable, but has no intention of sleeping with these guys.

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Yeah she is an attention whore. It's super common. Especially with girls you find in clubs and bars. That's why when I'm in a nightclub I'm focusing on extraction rather than kissing and gathering phone numbers.

These girls are super easy to game btw. Their the ones who respond best to the advice of being cocky, aloof, and making her jealous by gaming other girls in front of her.

I really think most of the pick-up advice I read is actually tailored to this type of bitch. I personally don't respect these women because they are liars to the core. They lie about their attraction towards you. They lie and pretend they are the loyal committed types of women, and many other habitual lies.

I recently (yesterday) found out that the bible refers to this as the Jezebel spirit:

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She's just a girl who likes sex and she's got a chump of a boyfriend.

The boyfriend gives her security. But he's such a fucking moron, he would never believe that his little princess would fuck some random guy. So he stays with her. It's a win/win situation for her. Smart girl. I'd definitely put her in my line up.

I hate calling a woman a whore or a slut !!!

Shes just doing what us guys do play the field. She's working the room and getting what she wants - might be drinks - might be attention .

No one knows this girls reasoning for all you know her boyfriend could be abusive and when she goes out she feels free and loves the attention because she feels sexy and wanted.

Everyones so quick to judge but i take my hat off to her fair play ! To all you guys calling her a whore/bitch/slut get a grip of yourself.

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Exactly, she's just an attention whore, but she has no intention of sleeping with these guys.
I've seen her going home on her own plenty of times after having made out with a guy in the previous hour!

I agree that the boyfriend is a chump, but surely he must have some idea what's going on? This girl has been regularly going to clubs with our college class, maybe over a dozen times, but never any sign of the boyfriend... surely, he must know that his girlfriend is hitting clubs without him?

I wouldn't define her as a "smart girl" either tbh. More like manipulative and conniving... okay so she likes making out with random guys, but surely there comes a point when you're in a serious relationship that you need to be loyal to your partner. Btw, I don't even know or care about her boyfriend, I'm just curious about the girl's agenda! I know that there are books aimed at women, such as The Rules, and when my friend told me at the weekend that this girl knows how to get what she wants, it immediately made me think of her possibly being a female PUA?

Either way, I think it's kinda funny, but she's probably just an attention whore!

The difference is though she's in a serious relationship. She's just playing these guys and leading them on for her own validation and attention. She's also treating her boyfriend like a chump.

I could be wrong, but I think a lot of guys here are ultimately looking for a serious relationship with one girl and when they get to that stage, what's the point in still pursuing random women in a niteclub?

There is plenty of guys on here who are in serious relationships yet want guys to tell them how to fuck there GF's best friend, sister bla bla bla.

The point is the worlds fucked up now is not 1940 when a woman stayed at home and cleaned/cooked for her man. Its 2014 no one can trust no one - The reasoning for this is everyone in the world can communicate so easily now thats why its so easy to stray. Back in the day when our grandparents etc were together 40,50,60 years is because they barely got out the town they lived never mind the country.

So to call a girl a whore or a slut because she likes attention is steep in my eyes. YES what she is doing is wrong but no one knows what her BF is like as i said she could be in a violent relationship or a controlling one etc etc its easy to sit and judge. Which is another fucked up problem of the world, if more people focused on themselves rather than others the world would be beautiful but unfortunately they would rather talk behind peoples backs about folks dirty washing.

I hate cheating and not condoning it in anyway my mum and dad split when i was 2 and ive herd multiple reasons why... my father was abusive, my mum cheated bla bla bla. I dont really care i still have 2 loving parents that had there issues and its in the past if this girl wants attention from guys and wants to play the game then fuck it why not ! a shit load of guys do it .

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Why is it we have no respect for men today? I mean a girl is cheating and people are looking for excuses for her. Treat women like they're adults not fucking children who can leave an abusive relationship if that's the case. It's not like she's pregnant or anything about abuse was even mentioned. It's like men are quick to side with a woman's actions over a man's. The other day I told my friend about a news story where a girl hit a guy with a pipe, on camera, then she called the cops saying he hit her. Dude was arrested over a lie. My friend said, well there are 2 sides to a story.. Huh? If it were the guy who hit the girl he won't have been saying well maybe she did something to him. It's like we are so quick to assume there must be a reason for a girl doing something shitty. And then we bash the guy for being a chump. Well she loves him hasn't left him and probably treats him well. This could be my girl. This could your girl. Doesn't make the guy a chump because his trust is in the wrong place. This could be your girl when she says she's working late. Let's not go to the defense of a cheater at the expense of dissing a dude or saying somehow it's his fault.

I've not condoned her cheating actions .

If shes cheating she should leave him simple or if someone i knew seen my girl doing that i would expect them to tell me so i could cut her off! If she/he wants to cheat they can simple everyone has reasons for doing what they do ! If he treats her good and he doesnt know she may want to ride it out for aslong as she can! Cheating is horrible thing and i dont normally get involved in that shit.

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