There is something guys that really disturbs my game and progression at the moment and i hope you could give me some advice about it:

When i started sarging it was really hard for me to deal with rejections from girls who walked away even already before i could finish my opener, looking at me as if i was a sort of weirdo. Now, as a result of improving my inner - and outer game, those kind of rejections hardly take place anymore and my AA even disappeared totally. And that felt great! Suddenly I was able to approach every girl at the street, supermarket etc. and, although I still couldn't reach the social hook point, almost all rejections were respectfull ones like "Oh thank you!" with a friendly smile while moving away showing that she, however she was pleased about my compliment, she didn't feel attracted to me enough to stay. And IF there was a rude girl I couldn't care anymore.

"Great!", I thought. "Now i can fully put my energy on improving my game itself without all those useless disturbing fears".

So i practished, did approach after approach and my game improved rapidly and soon i wasn't just able to reach the social hook point, but could even make girls really attracted to me. What a wonderfull thing is that by the way, if a women is looking at you like that! The intens way she looks at you as if i brought them in a wonderful fairytale and I was that fairytale. Difficult to describe. But anyhow, it's wonderfull and your self-esteem gets an enormous boost because of that!

But..., however i already can make the social hook point, my mid game is still quite poor. And as a result of that each time again and again i have to be painfully aware that with each mistake i make the attraction previously made to the wonderful girl in front of me reduces bit by bit till all attraction is gone and finaly she choses to leave before i could ask for her number.

This kind of rejection is very difficult for me to handle emotionally, especially right after the set if there are mistakes i still can't grasp why i made them. Those moments make me feel really angry at myself. I really wish at that kind of moments i could save the analyzing for later when the many beautifull girls in the streets are gone so i could just go on practising approaching girls, but that is so hard for me to do so then.

Does anyone kwow what i mean and maybe could give me some tips about how to handle those moments?

Try not giving compliment openers any more. If you possess a naturally playful and smooth combination of body language/eye contact/tonality you don’t have to do the male/logical verbal expression of intent. She KNOWS from how you are behaving with her what your intentions are. That way you don’t need to say a thing about her looks etc., it’s understood how you feel.

You can be talking about the font size of the local newspaper and her panties can get wet. It’s all in how you present it. I would see this way of behaving as the next stage of the good evolution you talked about in your post.

The thing about it is that a pickup is an exchange of energy so it really doesn’t matter what it is that you talk about. By keeping the energy consistently on point you can run a complete interaction, get her # or take her on an instant date etc.

Thanks for your advice, but why stopping with compliment openers? It is precisely that combination of direct opening AND that kind of spontanious genuine behavior you talked about that made me experience that her attraction for me raises so much more than with just being spontanious, playfull etc. alone.

And why do you think that will make me better in handling that kind of rejections my question was about?

It puts the girls into an all or nothing proposition, you are no longer a mystery, it's a very take it or leave it proposition, like 'me man you woman me like you now like me back' kind of thing.
Because you are peaking too soon in your interactions. You peak right off the bat, and there is no where to go but down. Think of a musical piece. The crescendo happens later on in the song, not right off the top.

Only a suggestion mate u obvi don't have to take me up on it. Have fun in the field, remember just the fact that you are approaching means that you have more balls than 99% of guys because you aren't afraid to follow your desires.

Ok, I understand your point now oceanx. Thanks anyhow. But i am still quite a newbie, so, in a realsitic way of seeing it, i expect still a lot of sets coming where I wil lose her after building up attraction. And because it appears that I am for some reason quite vuniarble for those kind of rejections (so i mean being rejected after there WAS attraction in the first place, like I described in my first message), I hoped someone here could give me advice in hanlde those kind of rejections EMOTIONALLY (not technically) so I don't have to break off my day game each time after such a rejection and lose hours of practising just because i feel me like shit, you know what i mean?

I feel like a broken record sometimes when I post on here...

Stop being a pussy.

Here's what I mean...

Dude, if a girl is into you. And you can SEE that she's into you... You've gotta make a move!!

You're making this common mistake of "I've gotta keep building more attraction."

Knock that shit off. Once the girl is all lit up like a Christmas tree looking at you, that's when you need to start making your moves to get her alone. You know it's on. She know's it's on. Make it happen. Don't keep waiting to build more and more attraction. She will either get bored, think you're weird, or think you're actually too good for her. And we don't want any of that now do we?

The term "hit on the girl" came from the cave man days. Where a guy would go up to a woman, club her in the back of the head, knock her out, drag her into his cave and fuck her. What you're doing is the same thing EXCEPT you're not using a REAL club... You are clubbing her emotionally. Make sense?

Stick with the direct way of doing things too. It will save you alot of time and it's much better for your self-esteem.