Hi all,

I'm delighted to say that I have become far better in actually closing a girl in a club and making out with her (you will see from my posting history this had been a major sticking point for me for far too long). The road was long and in the end it came down to never giving up, practice and, most importantly, improving my mindset made the biggest difference.

Now the problem is, once I've now made out with a girl in a club, how to escalate it enough so she actually comes back home with you etc and doesn't go back to join her friends.

Perhaps it is a combination of go back to building comfort, talk dirty to her, start kissing her neck, dance with her (not always an option if in a bar) etc? Are there any specific routines or patterns that one can follow to significantly increase the chances of the girl coming back home with you?

So your question basically is, how to take a girl home from the club

lol, making out has NOTHING to do with what goes on behind a PULL

First im going to describe to you what making out is

Making out is = Demostration that you like her, an exchange of saliva that can be fun between a girl and a boy and can turn both you and her on and if you add a little ass grabbing while making out, it can demostrate you gona hit it real good later on. lol

Now how to pull a girl home?

Thats a LOGISTICS issue.

What are logistics?

Ask her these questions
WHo are you here with?
How did you get here?
Are you out to have fun?
What are your plans later?
How are you getting home?
What are you doing tomorrow?

This way you get an idea of what is possible

If for example, you ask, what are you doing later?
and she says "DONT KNOW JUST HAVING FUN WOOHOO"

then you can kind of tell if you stick around you might be able to suggest going for food after or going back to your place

Also make sure you ask who she is there with

If shes with 5 friends, make sure the friends know you are cool so theres a higher chance of them letting her leave with you at the end, or maybe you can all go grab food then be friendly and they might let you take her home

always be friendly and cool

Every situation is diffrent but is all common sense

AND THATS HOW YOU PULL

Escalation/connection ect. ect. is all ATTRACTION BUILDING

PULLING a girl is all about LOGISTICS

and if you BUILD ATTRACTION correctly
and the LOGISTICS are in YOUR FAVOR

THEN YOU PULL

MAKE SENSE?

I LOVE CAP LOCKS MUAHAHAHAHAH

na, but really

hope this helps

and keep up the good work... making out with a gorgeous woman is always fun

oh and one more thing

remember time is your ally

Go with what makes sense on this one

sometimes in rare cases you can pull really fast if the logistics allow

for example if she's there alone and stuff

but most of the time she will be with friends and stuff which makes it alot harder

so throughout the night focus on having a good time/building attraction and when the party starts to wind down, and you know all of the logistics, lead and make plans to either get food or flat out just pull her back to your house for "drinks"

BE SOCIAL and the friends should allow it
if not
Number close
But thats your best shot
GL

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A simple answer would be is to:

Arousal (Turn her on, perhaps kiss her neck and look at her like you wanna do naughty things to her)

Handle logistics (is she with her friends? are they cool with her being with you alone?)

Lead ('Let's go out for some fresh air' or 'let's go for a walk'

Lead to ideally your place.

Token resistance:

her- I am not having sex with you...
you- That's fine, I just wanna hang out (continue to lead)

Once in the bedroom, Turn her on again and go for it. You will come acrosS last minute resistance, be persistent but don't push it too far if you start to feel the vibe is getting negative.

(Have condoms ready)

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Thanks dtrak and Pebble for your replies. I will focus getting her more aroused next time by kissing her in other places etc and giving her that look.