makes she your friend, dont play a sex game, and tell her that you want to know her friends, her hot friends, you say that and you are saying "girl you are very nice, and i have good moments with you, but... you are not atractive to me, so present me your hot friends "
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If you think that "the thoughts and feelings running through my brain at this very moment" qualify as "truth", you have too high an opinion of yourself. People all too often say "I'm just telling the truth" when all they're doing is expressing their current reality. Your current reality isn't objective. Chances are, it matters to no one but you. Plenty of reason to keep it to yourself, but all the more so if expressing it would be hurtful.

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Mostly, you don't have to deal with it. Girls are rarely so direct as to say "Oh, hey, let's fuck/date".

If she really did though, just tell her you don't see her that way. That's pretty much how girls handle it with guys.

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that is a lie. I don't want any more friends. also I would never be interested in anykind of relation with someone with less social value than I do.
the truth about what I feel. sure someone could find that girl pretty. which I doubt (at least the majoroty of the people would obviously agree with me), but there could be sure, everyone has different tastes, some even very weird ones.
But I'm not referring to that neither she asks what the world thinks about it. they ask about why I'm not attracted and why I don't want to talk to them. I tell them the truth about it. Nothing more than that.
I never say things like, no one will ever like you or something like that. I'm not cruel and honestly I really don't know about that but I also don't really care. I don't lie and I don't insult.
It's because people keep things for themselves that there's so many misunderstandings and wars on this world. the world would be a better place if people would just be honest and speak their minds instead of lying and omitting.

I can still remember when I was an afc. It was an hard time to find out what I was doing wrong. Most girls aren't honest and rarely say what they really think. I would had to beg for them to telling me the real truth that sometimes I knew they were hiding. Sure an afc behaviour but chances were already blown and it helped me improved (if they weren't friends). The things I learn were great value.

Not sure what would be your suggestion instead of telling the truth. Lying or omitting is better? ofc not. Saying things like, "it's not you it's me" it's just being a dick and a liar. That's way worse. And what's wrong with the truth really? if you get offended because people say the truth to you then you are going to have a lot more problems in your life.
that just doesn't work with most. they usually insist. and a lot.

That's extremely unusual when sober. I've never experienced it, nor even heard of it happening to someone I know.

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when I say no they just insist. they just can't handle a no. I guess they aren't used to it. imo it must be human curiosity. I'll happily explained them.

So you're saying ugly girls actively insist on talking to you. They aren't used to being ugly? Why would they assume that they have a chance with you in the first place? And you've never gotten a drink thrown in your face, and girls cry or thank you later? This just sounds strange

Girls are more embarrassed by rejection than guys, because it happens far less frequently to them, simply due to the 'power of pussy'. Even the ugliest fatties get opened constantly and can easily get laid without even ever needing to open a guy. For this reason, I'm calling bullshit on your story. I simply don't believe that any girls, ugly or not, throw themselves at you and consistently pursue you when you reject them. You're not a celebrity, you're just some dude. Every fat chick knows she can easily get laid. So why would she waste energy trying to convince you to sleep with her? Such BS!

You're just digging yourself into a deeper hole by trying to justify your BS story. You need to check your ego, learn to be humble and be more open-minded. Game is a journey, you never stop learning. Instead of looking down on others to build up your own ego, try listening. Try being more respectful of your peers, whose collective experience far outweighs your own. Going around thinking you know it all will get you nowhere. Not just in pickup either, in life generally.

I have a reputation for being well above average in looks and bedroom skills. I have literally been passed around social circles like a piece of meat for sex. But I can honestly say that in the 13 years I have been sexually active, I have rarely been cold approached by any girl, ugly or not. That said, I have rejected enough girls to know that the scenario you are describing is extremely rare at best. Only once did a girl approach me, drunk, and said "Do you want to fuck? I just broke up with my boyfriend and I want to fuck a random". I was so shocked and my boner so killed by her forwardness that I rejected her straight up, even though she was not bad-looking and had big tits. I honestly thought it was a setup because it was too good to be true. I was wrong. She replied "Fuck you then, I'll find someone else to fuck! Your loss! Who do you think you are? Fucking dickhead. I bet you have a small cock!", spitting while she spoke in my face because she was so wasted. I later found out from my wing that she is a well known bar slut who has falsely accused a couple of guys I know of rape, so that was probably a lucky escape.

Anyway, I digress. You can tell as many fake stories and as many lies on the forum as you like. Nobody can stop you. You are free to brag and fake DHV on here if it makes you feel better. But it is the lies you tell yourself which are the most damaging. Hope you don't hate me for telling it like it is. I'm trying to help you get away from ego-based game. It will only hurt you in the long run.

I couldn't care less about what you think. I don't have anything to prove and my time is precious. sounds like you are jealous or something. Grow up. This things happen all the time. If you go out instead of trolling on internet you might see it.
I'm not bragging or something. I'm not proud about it. I don't even like it. I hate it. It's not DHV, quite on the opposite. It's not like HB are trying to pick me or something. Only uglies do that unfortunately. And they don't approach like that. And usually it's me that approaches because I'm opening a set interested on other target and only after they come after me. It's not like I'm at a bar and I'm a ugly girl magnet and they instantly come to me asking to fuck them. That doesn't happen.
And yes sometimes I get that kind of reactions. I get all kinds of reactions. I've been slapped, kissed, spit, called gay, insulted a lot, get drinks thrown. But since I'm polite and and I don't tell them just to fuck off they usually just insist by asking more questions.

Lol i love how i've seen you post on multiple threads merely trolling and shooting people down and when someone questions your blatantly stupid claims that girls cold approach you all the time, you say they are jealous and to grow up.

You my good man are a class A dickhead. You've posted on multiple threads and i've refrained from calling you out on your BS but i'm glad some of the more experienced than myself guys are calling you out because you are full of shit. Just hope people dont actually take on board the advice you give because anything i've seen you post is whack and constantly putting people down.

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Translation for the rest of the forum: "I've been rumbled, but I am sticking to my bullshit story no matter what! Admitting that I'm wrong now would be so Beta!!! And I'm the biggest fucking Alpha here!!! Right??? Do you guys even lift? Beefcake! BEEF - CAKE!!!"

Lol, you just contradicted yourself there bro. You have nothing to be proud of, so what is there for me to jealous of?

I love how people are seeing through this chaps BULLSHIT ! lol

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