Firstly, sorry for te long post!!

Ok so I work within a hospital and moved temporarily to an office. Whilst there I saw a real hottie who took my eye immediately. We never really spoke directly but did talk in group discussion.

Anyway I was moved back to my office and she messaged me saying she was gutted I moved back and said thanks for me leaving the decorations (I left a xmas tree). I responded, and this kept on going for the whole day and eventually I just asked if she wanted to go for a drink outside of work, which she agrees.

She emails her number and I text her mine. This was Monday, I ask when she's free and she replies she's busy but can maybe meet next week. I text her to say just let me know when you're free and we can meet and left it at that.

Then the ignoring starts... She sent me a general text back following that message and I text a question back and she doesn't respond.

I don't bother to text her again for the next 2 days and then on the thursday she emails to ask if she can pop over to my office to grab a tea and 'catch up'. I agree and she comes the following night after work to meet.
We have a really great time and she texts me afterwards to tell me that too and to give me a ring when I got home. I call her, we flirt, we speak for 20mins and I ask again if she wants to meet up again to which she agrees. We arrange to meet on the Monday afterwork.

On the sat night she is out for drinks and starts to text me around 9 with a few random texts asking how my night is going to which I respond and ask her the same and she doesn't text back. At that point I turned my phone off as I wasn't going to sit around and wait for her text.

The sunday morning I turn on my phone and she'd sent a text at 12.30 on the sat night asking what I'm up to and then she tried phoning at 1 too.

So I send a friendly text on the Sunday morning implying he obviously had a good night and how her hangover was. And she doesn't respond again. I send 1 more text just to see if we are still meeting on Monday and she doesn't respond until Monday morning to say she's at uni and can't meet.

At this point I just send a text saying 'ok cool, we can just leave it then x'. She then texts back 'ok, I wouldn't be able to get back in time, another day?'. I text back telling her I'm free on the Thursday or Friday and again no response again.

Should I bother with this one or just move on? If she wasn't so hot Id have given up already.

What do you think?

Notice how you're both busy and missing or not replying to eachother's texts periodically. Don't fret about it. Keep pinging her from time to time just as she is doing with you. The merge wants to happen, let it happen in its own time

Ok I'll carry it on. I guess it's just the lack of response from my texts that is frustrating me.

Is it worth just phoning instead or will I come across too eager?

Sure, give her a call.

Ok so she sent me a text saying she'd call to sort out Wednesday as the next date and she hasn't called.

I call her tonight and she sends it to voicemail.

Now should I call it quits? I'm tempted to send a text saying, 'I think you're really cool but you play too many games an I think we should leave it'

Too hasty to call it a day or would you wait it out for a response?

^ Don't send that message...sounds like your begging her and she is doing you a favor by hanging out with you. Just RELAX and wait for her to respond to your phone call.

Agreed do NOT send that text.

Also you are behaving in an eager fashion with this girl: She said she'd call you and then you called her.

I agree with the other poster: Relax and just let the game come to you.

Ok I wont send.

She emailed me today and apologised for missing the call saying she 'had a mad evening, long story'. No talk about arranging the date still. We've got a dialogue going and I'm assuming the right thing to do is not prompt talk about te date and leave her to mention it?

If it's meant to be it's meant to be.

So it's the day we agreed the date and just as we were organising it she said she had to go as he was busy. Ifh is girl wasn't a 9 I would've given up already - Would you bother to chase or would you leave it?

Take it in stride. Stop chasing as much. Try to spike her interest with the cool shit you are up to; show her you have a life. She flaked once. I'd give it two more solid flakes before giving up. Meet more girls so you have genuine reason to have more of a take it or leave it attitude with her; she'll feel this I promise.

exactly...why are u so upset by a girl you met only for a while...

so what if she is hot? does it mean u have to forgive her more often?

just relax into the chase...go approach other girls so u take on an abundance mindset or occupy yourself with smthng more important in your life

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