Hey playas! My name is Brian and I am 18. I started learning the mystery method when I was a sophomore in high school and let me tell you, it has impacted my life in a big way. Even though I have not had sex or a long relationship, I have learned to attract beautiful women that have been hit on or gamed by chumps. I only have a close group of guy friends and we kind of have a group of girls we occasionally kick it with. One of my friends knows the game like I do and the others learn from my friend and I talking about it. We mainly do cold approaches at the mall because clubs are too far away from us and we go to parties every now and then. So, I know I have potential to been a REALLY great pickup artist but I don't go out of my way to cold approach a lot. I want to expand my social circle so my guy friends and I have more options to choose from. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Keep sarging playas!

3 years of PUA. No GF. No Sex.

It sounds like this impact may not be as positive as you would think. Although awesome social skills as the tool and path to the destination of Sex or a LTR, not having what PUA's would call success in three years is a bit of an issue.

Help for social circle is simple, sarge more. You want to expand your social circle. The only way to do that is meet more and new people. Although this is simple at face value, it seems to be the illusive obvious.

Cool guys are harder to come by than cool chicks to hang out with. I tend to find, cool guys are infrequent and a group of cool girls will have at least one 'cool guy' to hang out with. Start sarging more, meeting more women, invite them into your social circle, and meet the other 'cool guys' they hang out with. This is how I have meet all of the 'cool guys' I have in my social circle.

The distinction is, the guys you want in your social circle are not always the best guy with women. I have learned more about Game from guys who struggle with women than those very good guys. The reason is the guy who struggles, in my experience, still has some good quality which is why the women will hang out with him. It can be money, but I often find guys are super funny, great story tells, or have some other intangible which makes them great people and someone who I can improve myself by being around.

I wish you the best of luck. I have been in Game ruts and not gotten laid for a couple weeks or have been 'off' in field for several months at a time. Often it is due to bad habits which I repeat. I would make sure you are not doing anything 'wrong' which prevents your success.

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Ya that's true, the impact might have not have been too positive. Meeting new people is the only way to reach my goal and get to know the guys too. Pretty much, I have to stop being a little bitch and throw myself into new social experiences. Thanks for the constructive criticism Life PUA!

I imagine you're meeting plenty of people.

The issue is that you're not able to distinguish women who find you entertaining, from women who are sexually interested in you.

Most PUA products teach you a whole bunch of nonsense, that has little to nothing to do with seducing women.

Most guys in high school have had sex at your age, without learning the things you have. Seduction is actually a lot simpler than most products make it out to be. Much like getting in shape, there is a difference between "simple" and "easy".

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