Hi guys,

Thanks for taking the time to read this...

Basically I was in a FWB situation with a chick and whilst she was out of town I ended up hooking up with another girl and she found out.

Obviously wasn't happy, went through the whole were done with fwb thing but we later talked about it and agreed to carry on. I was away from home with work when we were talking and I got back this weekend.

Chatting normally and then seen her in a club on a night out and was chatting for a while and at the end of the night shared a taxi and got to mine but she said she wasn't coming so I was like fine.

Rang her a little later, she told me the next day I was being a dick on the phone saying like I don't want to be wasting my time with her if she doesn't want to see me.

Kinda ignored her for a bit, then saw her out the following night, just said hello and I ended up going home early cause it was a crappy night and she text me around 4 am asking why I went home. Replied the next day and was just gonna ignore again but thought screw it as asked her if she wanted to hang out but she couldn't because she's going back to her uni town tonight.

My mate suggested to just ignore her and see what happens or do something like message her every few days or so until I see her in person on nights out.

Does anyone this this fwb is salvageable or know I way I could worm my way back in?

Thanks in advance

You do realize she wants more than a FWB situation with you? It was okay to call it that until another girl was involved. So understand if you do fix this, understand your FWB's true intentions.

But before answering your initial question, how did she find out about you hooking up with another girl?

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Apologies, I missed out major detail here as I wrote this in a hurry. This girl broke up with her boyfriend about 2 months ago and said she didn't want anything serious hence the fwb.

And she found out because these two girls have a mutual guy friend that I didn't know about until it was too late.

So what you're saying is that she is being irrational. You likely wouldn't be able to talk to her rationally about it. So if you want to keep the FWB thing going, you just need to talk to her and recognize that she is hurt (not saying to apologize for it) and that you should have thought about how she feels. This is more conflict resolution than pick up, but I find that it works pretty much the same. It should calm her emotional side to where she isn't so upset. Then your job is to make sure that you acted the same way that you used to with her so she feels those same sexual feelings again. Then be discreet the next time you find another girl. That's the gray area of stradling being honest and still keeping it a FWB solution.

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Thanks for the advice bro but think I need to take the hint that it's dead.

Conversation just stopped dead tonight and was a similar result Friday night and you can see the message read on SPAM so it's looking like game over.

But why do you think she acted like that? Despite it being over, it would be good to know why she got annoyed

I would like to know myself bro ha I just don't get shy she would message me in the early hours of a morning but then just stop replying? I made the effort to try and hang out in a non sexual environment as she usually just came back to mine to bang so gave her the opportunity to see it isn't just about that if she wanted to.

Not really sure how legit her story about going back last night was though as I've not known her to go back on a Sunday night yet, but who knows?