I am really good at pulling girls from a bar to my place. I can't take a girl from my room and turn it into a lay. We end up just drinking on the side of my bed and listening to music. I don't know when I'm even supposed to try and get the lay (right when she comes into my room or later on). I sometimes try for a makeout and then she kinda rejects it or she doesn't and we keep going. Her friend will usually call her or something happens and then she leaves or she sleeps over but still nothing happens. What's going on? My room is not super clean but decent.

Tough to say, can be a lot of stuff. Knee-jerk reaction I have to the post is that you're not escalating enough prior to the pull. A lack of sexuality conveyed by you leads to girls just thinking you're friendly, and that a drink at your apartment is just a drink at your apartment. Also, seriously, keep the place clean. Messy is acceptable to an extent, like if you have a small pile of laundry in the corner that isn't on the verge of critical mass, or a stack of papers and books on a desk, but keep it clean.

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You are having troubles with LMR as I do. The problem for me seemed to be not enough sexuality displayed before getting to the room.

A good tip is learning to give massages, easy to escalate. You get from relaxed to aroused touching the right spots, give a try.

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How many times has this happened? It sounds to me like you're describing 3 experiences or less.

I go straight to my bed when I get in the house; expecting them to know whats going to happen. I don't wait, do extra drinking, or talk much unless it's a girl I'm actually into. We talked at the bar, outside, and on the way home.. The talking part is out the way.

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You're "gaming" too much and she winds up there with out knowing what your intentions are. You need to stop being the fun guy to drink with and start being the guy she fucks.

Here's my motto: "Get a good night sleep"

Whip your fucking cock out dude. Either she is gonna like it and start playing with it or sucking on it. Or she's gonna freak the fuck out and leave. Either way, you're getting a good night sleep.

It will probably creep out the first few girls you do it with but it will help you with showing your intentions from the get go because you'll be sick of wasting your fucking time with the girls who weren't "DTF" in the first place.

When in doubt, whip it out.

Maybe you're being too indirect and not flirting and verbally escalating sexually to get her in an aroused state?
Also, what do you think you're doing wrong?

Imagine a world where you can just meet a girl... take her to your house... and she just throws herself in the bed and says, FUCK ME NOW... ahhh what a wonderful world... oh yea... thats the world of a fucking man !!

A girl wants a man, be one.

Don't expect her to make the move. She wants to feel like she is being won over, she wants to feel the emotions, she wont automatically get horny and want to fuck you.

How can she feel does emotions?

Yeah, you guessed it, its your fucking job !!

Show her a good time throughout the night, flirt, tease her, connect, push pull, have fun .

MAKE HER FEEL

Set up the vibe in a way that when you walk through that front door, SHE WILL tear off all your clothes and ryde that hard dick like an animal.

And that my friend, takes true seduction skills

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Anyways, my advice to you is, the problem is not in the bedroom, the problem is your game. Work on your flirting, work on your seeding, plant the seed, escalate accordingly so that when you get home, sex is the obvious thing to do.

Make sense?

Good luck

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