Hello guys,

I had this situation couple days ago and I wonder is it hopeless? or I get something out of it ?

Here is what happened :

I was dressing really nicely at the mall and walking around with super un-comfy shoes. Then, I ran into a shoes store that sparked my interest . It was Saturday and they were kinda busy but I manage to do what I did.

I got inside and looked for a shoes then noticed a cute nerdish girl who was in the back of the store working .I went there and asked her to help me.She shocked me when she started asking about me like what do I do ? because she said "I look like a prince ??!" I laughed then told her maybe.She went and came back to give me the proper size then I told her why do you think that.. she said not only her but even her co worker thought that.. I personally thought she was just trying to get me to buy but what happened shocked me again.

she literally got closer to me and even in my personal space which was strange. After a bit I told her the real thing that i'm not a prince or anything which drove her to ask what am I and we chatted about me for a bit then told me to fold my fingers to together for her to show me some sort of a weird shoes checking strategy which I thought was a total bullshit to get me to be closer to her ..

Here was the interesting part : I asked her about herself then she sat down on the floor of the store and talked for about good 10 minutes totally away from work things like her hobbies , interests, and her big photography interest which was a good topic for me because I like photography and got good information about it . Slowly, she started asking me about myself like " what I like guys or girls and also any love interest I have these days ? " and started to going on and on about her wanting to improve her photography skills and she wishes that she knows someone cool like me " then she said I like you " ... to help her out to be better .Then, she started asking me about where to find me ? like Facebook , twitter? , and showed huge interest in keeping in touch ... so, I told her I can find some free time to help her out and chill then I got her number then we talked for a bit about her finding where I put the photos I take ..

I liked the shoes she gave me and I felt bad not to buy it because either way I need a new pair of shoes .. so ( I think its a mistake but ) I end up buying the shoes ...

I waited for couple days and texted her about the photos and told her that I wanna see some of her photos she shot but she never replied so I'm wondering whats going or is it totally waste of my time and I should just give up on her ???

Any thoughts guys ??

Could go back to the store to see her again, or to return the shoes if you haven't worn them (as an excuse to go in to the store).

If she is still showing interest, schedule a meetup with her while you are seeing her in person.

you are totally right my friend ... and thats what I actually did and she shown even more interest that she started directly complementing me and my dress style and how speak and my honesty ... then I asked her out directly she turned a bit red but she said she is not yet ready for a relationship however she would love to go out with me informally to where fun other than like a dinner or a movie those would come later ... so It actually went pretty well and she told me that she is not that much of a texter and apologized about it and we will be communicationing about the date pretty soon though-out this week