how should i handle a girl who likes to text? it used to be that she would text me a few times throughout everyday. in the past she had shown me a lot of ioi's, weve talked on the phone a couple of times, and weve been trying to get together and hangout. but recently this has slowed down. mostly because this old fling of hers decided to "kinda" get back together with her. she keeps talking to me tho. and when i asked her to join me n some friends to hang out, she said that this other guy would get mad.

for a few texts she went on explaining how "were only friends" "but we talked and he trusts me" "idk i think were more than friends but im not sure"
i wasnt going to argue or fight him for her so i just said, "well u let me know when u figure that one out"

she later texted me asking if i was angry, i said no. and later again she texted me with small talk in the evening. probably cuz she thought i was angry. and now i havent heard from her the past couple of days.

how should i handle this? i am going to keep sarging but how should i react to this girl now? should i start talking to her first so she doesnt think ive blown her off?

thanks guys