Ok guys so this is a weird ass situation. Plus this will probably be full of AFC moves so forgive me lol.

This past summer, I started talking to this girl and soon we realized that we had really good chemistry. After just 2 days of talking she drunk texts me telling me she is falling in love with me and that she doesn't know what to do about it as she has a boyfriend who she as been with for over a year.

I called her out on it and told her I don't like drama and then there was banter for a few months on/off. Banter included phone sex though we never actually hooked up.

In the end, we both sort of decided that we needed to put an end to the bullshit and I told her to figure shit out.

Now, out of the blue, after almost 3 months she texted me last night. I asked her straight how is your boyfriend and her response was 'meh...'.

She asked me whether I was single or not. All these things point to the fact that she's interested but knowing her she might as well be as much of an indecisive wuss as last time.

I would of course be interested in an LTR with her but at the same time I don't want fucking drama lol and right now I have a couple other girls in the pipeline.

So, how do I proceed about this?

Are you saying you want a long term relationship with this girl and you also have a few other girls in the pipeline that you could see yourself having long term relationships with? Because that's crazy talk.


You shouldn't be in a relationship with a girl til after you've gotten her in to bed numerous times and have been meeting up for at least a month or two.

Also, this girl is constantly trying to chat with you behind her BF's back. Why do you think she wouldn't do that to you if you were dating her?

Get her back to your place and escalate. Anything more from this girl is gonna end badly if you ask me. She's either an attention whore who is constantly flirting with guys behind her bf's back or she is insecure and doesn't want to leave her boring bf until she lines up another sorry sucker to date.

If you're only out for sex, seems like you could probably get it, but I'm sorta getting a relationship vibe from you...

If you want a relationship with this girl, stick to your guns. Refuse to see her until she's dealt with her shit... You're playing this correctly.

"Lets meet up and just see what happens."

Haha no, I have other girls who I have been dating and then she pops up out of nowhere. If she is receptive then obviously the other girls have to go. If she isn't then I keep on doing what I have been doing.
Good point but the guy she's dating is a legit cheat according to her.
I think she's just trying to be loyal to him and give him a fair chance, at least that is what she says. I have no idea what that really means though haha.

Take your hand (whichever one is dominant)

Raise it, and apply to your face, as hard as possible.

Repeat until you're no longer interested in an LTR with this girl.

She's more interested in the attention than you. IF there was any chance of you guys hooking up, then you probably blew it when you both went silent. If that's the case, then you should be counting your lucky stars, because she sounds like a headcase. I know its REALLY difficult (I've been there) but my advice would be to delete her number to keep yourself from putting yourself in a situation that will only be bad for YOU in the long run.

Go hardcore sexual out of the gate. Fuck her, then move on.

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Right on point sir, thankfully i figured that out before your slap yourself suggestion .

i totally second this - but you have to realize shes probably willing to cheat on him as well. could it be the same for you ?

something to think about

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Yea, I've heard that one before.