I need a bit of advice of how to turn things around. i saw a girl for the 3rd time, a movie at hers. first date no kiss (i tried), 2nd date no kiss (tried again), 3rd date make out quite a few times. I have been building a deep connection with her and c&f. Recently it's been more emotional connection focused.

3rd date, she had been off work that day as she was a bit under the weather (i didnt know) but didnt cancel on me. With hindsight i probably should have acknowledged this and eased up the kissing. We kissed goodbye. She sends me a text the day after saying it can't happen again. in my response i basically said she had been winning me over (maybe it was a mistake i said that) but thanks for telling me so i can move on (i didnt want to be needy) and then we chatted for a bit. next day we had a brief text exchange which turned more sexually suggestive. She sends me a text couple of days later asking if i'm ok, we had a brief exchange about what we were up to at the weekend.

i thought maybe i just sucked at kissing haha and lost her interest, but why the texts from her later in the week. I have no idea how to proceed. I'm thinking I should wait a bit before asking her out again but not sure. we do have a work party coming up, not sure whether to talk to as many other girls as poss and not focus on her, or talk to her (bearing in mind its a work environment so our usual chat may be more difficult). any help?

Stop entertaining childish behavior. If she doesn't want to do the things that you want to do, you don't hang out with her anymore. If she tells you something can't happen, you tell her you don't like that option and you leave her alone after that. Don't let her move backwards on you.

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I'm pretty sure she's into you, or she wouldn't have gone on three dates. Either that or she REALLY loves the attention. However, you've probably displayed a tad bit too much neediness and HESITANCY. You're AFRAID to piss her off just a bit too much. My advice would be to initiate LOTS of kino, get her in a situation where she's close to you or leaning on you, see how she responds. Then when it feels right, go in for the kiss. If it doesn't feel right, go home. Be visibly upset that she hasn't kissed you. If she does like you, then she WILL make the effort to kiss you, or re initiate body contact. If not, tell her good day, maybe you guys should just be friends, and move on.

Sounds like it was a mild shit test to me. In future just either ignore it or just say "ok" then continue as normal.

Talk to as many other bitches as possible and just keep her around just in case she wants to come over in the future.

Milk Bones work best with bitches and if you know one that can talk back, I suggest hitting the talk show circuit and cashing out.