Hey gents

Its my 21st here in the states, great night. Anyways a girl I've had a thing with a while back posted on my fb with massive iois, even calling me the nick name I gave her (she started calling me it). Anyway i found out she had a bf thru a mutual friend, and when i asked her what's new she didn't mention him. Obvious ioi, but I've never been in this position, girl with bf attracted to me and all. How do you guys think i should proceed? Wouldn't mind seeing her or even stepping into the picture.

Side note ik girls date guys when they have minimal attraction to them, been that afc before so i know if I play my cards right I can come out on top

Don't bring him up in conversation and just meet up with her. Escalate and fuck. Girls make decisions with their clitoris, not their logical brain. Mentioning her boyfriend will make you look insecure and weak.

Warning: Do not make any plans to be her boyfriend, even if you start fucking her. Nothing is real until she dumps her boyfriend.

Agreed, interested in her not her boyfriend. Thanks for the warning, caught myself thinking of that earlier and nothing fucks with your head then planning how things are going to happen.

"She wrote on my Facebook wall so she's in love with me and wants to break up with her boyfriend... right?"

C'mon dude.

Girls do that type of shit to make their boyfriend jealous. Don't get too excited.

Anyways, you've got contact with her. Now see if you can get her to meet up. That's really all that matters. You can't fuck her through Facebook. If you have figured out a way to do such a thing... Can you teach me? lol

If she doesn't mention her boyfriend... proceed as usual. He would do it to you if you were her boyfriend and he was in your shoes.

Just realize though... girls are usually pretty smart about actually cheating. They aren't going to advertise it all over Facebook. The girl is probably just playing games with her boyfriend and you are her pawn at the moment. I could be wrong but I've been through shit like that before... It really means nothing.

haha man I wish I knew, would have a lot of girls bagged if I knew how to do that.
Nah the thing is I don't have her bf as a friend on facebook and I have a private profile so that's irrelevant. Also have I've had contact, tho minimal, the past couple days and I stopped it. Going to set up a meet after a few days at a local weekly event I've run into her at a few times.

Side note - I saw her post something about tool Tuesday? I'm not one for these dignified days, ie woman crush Wednesday, ect, but I saw this and laughed. I wouldn't be called a tool lightly.

I just want to add:
Do not make any plans to be her boyfriend if you actually end up fucking her. If she cheats WITH you, she'll cheat ON you.

Completely agree, think I'll friendzone her tbh, shes part of a social circle I'm in.