This girl likes anal a lot. But she's very tight and she says getting it started hurts. Sometimes we'll try to get it in an she'll say not tonight. It's too painful. Whenever we get it going for 3 or 4 mins, she's fine and can go for an hour.

Any techniques for starting it with as little pain as possible?

Please tell me you are using lube......??

Lots of spit. Maybe I should oil her up real good. I think I'll get her a small plug.

She's black. A few years back, the last black girl I dated told me her butt hole stays tight, regardless of anal sex.

Dude, use lube. Get quality stuff. I like KY Silk. If you ever meet a girl that is very dry or feels some pain when having sex get a quality lube that has warming sensation in it. It helps out alot.

Spit is not lube.

Yeah dude, you need to get some lube. Good lube. Don't buy the cheap shit. Some websites will tell you otherwise but get the shit with the numbing agent in there. It's gonna hurt her a little bit either way but part of the pleasure for the girl is the slight pain of well... getting fucked in the ass.

Also, do you start with like a finger or maybe a small dildo first or do you just jam your cock in there with some spit on it?

"Make you feel it inside your belly, if it's tight get the K-Y Jelly" JAY-Z...knows whats up

Sometimes I finger her ass for a while first but not always.

We have a date Thursday. I'll grease her up better than a big mac with extra cheese.

There are four major types of lube. Water, oil, cream and silicone based. Silicone based basically lasts forever and is very slick. Something like Pjur Body Glide is going to work a lot better than something oil based like KY. Though KY is a lot better than anything water based.

The only downside with silicone is that it can stain sheets, so you have to be careful when applying it, and make sure you don't chuck the bottle to the side.

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my favorite lube to use is JO H2O (highly recommended)
water based COOL kind
it is definitely NOT STICKY like the other shit when it dries up
they have different kinds but i like the dark blue (a little darker than primary blue) label the best
it is also okay to use if you have silicone or latex and it wont break them down, i have a few latex cockrings we sometimes use

we put it in the fridge to make it colder - my girlfriend loves it and she says it tastes like peppermint - me i think it has its own unique taste i dont mind but i guess i can see where she is coming from saying it tastes like peppermint

we have used it for anal sex and when she is sore but we want to keep going.

make sure you keep the lid closed cause it can evaporate because it is water based, but if that happens or if you are almost out you can add a little water and shake it up (because its water based) and it will work the same.

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