Hi , I am truly grateful to the seduction community. I have never been more on track with my life, never been happier, and I am always thirsty for more.


I believe have much natural alphaness and a hard bad boyness to myself to begin with. But after reading the BAD BOY Guide and all of Carlos Xunas ALPHA MAN Program I am honing all my perks and dealing with my weaknesses.

I'm in my early 20s , I'm a businessman college drop out that makes a six figure salary that is gonna be seven really soon. I'm also a diehard guy for romance deep down, my girl knows this too.



The girl I truly love is...... A working girl. She's a very high class working girl. I don't give her a single dollar. She recently just sent me some money as a compliancy test I asked of her for. We split the bills at dinner, I BADBOY her ass into buying me drinks all the time. I've already sexually reframed her to the max because eating pussy is something I was born to do. I'm certain I have an insane amount of rapport and trust with this girl because she trusts me with shit I know she doesn't want anybody else handling. She has also showed me her intellectual sides that she has brought up no one appreciates.


This girl is a HB10, Seductress. Every man wants to hand his balls to her.


Now my buddies have been trying to get me to watch shows like Real Housewives , Basketball Wives, and shit like that. She is a prime example of an ALPHA FEMALE. She gets to sleep with athletes, rappers, big ballers. But at the end of the day she tells me she loves me.

What do I want from this girl?

Just a long term healthy relationship. I don't expect exclusiveness. I don't expect anything out of her really, I know the reality check.

The sex is farking awesome and I don't think I want to get rid of that ever..... Yet.


She calls me a farking asshole all the time and she seems to try to break up with me every month and I'm always like 'whatever lol' about it and she crawls back every time. I don't understand it almost.
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I absolutely thought this was a troll, initially (still not convinced it isn't)... But what are you actually asking here? Have I missed the question?

You want to know why she breaks up with you and calls you an asshole once a month?

Probably because she's a paid escort and about once a month runs into a guy she thinks she can replace you with...

If that's what you're asking...

My question is, how do I get her to drop her profession or drop whatever orbiters she has ...



I don't know how many other guys she has sex with for free other than me but I'd rather it just be me that is getting the free services and the words of love


Honestly I can't see myself driving her to her clients house or anything supporting her profession but it is what it is.

Ok, I'm back to thinking this is a troll. Nicely played.

I had a high school friend that was pretty far down the road ti extreme betatude like this. His girlfeiend turned out to be an "escort". He stayed with her for a while. It was the result of years of extreme nerdity betadom chastity and the first experience of some poon. He hung on for a while with her too. So it may be a ligit post, a pathetic cry out.

Well it's a good thing OP will soon make 7 figures then (we're all very impressed)... He can buy happiness.

To talk about being as alpha as he is - and then to ask such a question... This post makes no sense, and it's a troll.

Making 7 figures...lol alright buddy.

No beta just drops out of college and becomes wildy successful and rich, especially in business. Business requires contacts, networking, meeting people. It requires leaders, alphas. Alphas don't have problems with women.

This is a troll.

It is sad that we have to dick size around here.


I dived into pickup/seduction reading only recently and when I started reading things about Alpha, I realize I already possess most of the qualities, including in the Bad Boy guide.


Enough about my salary. No one gives a shit, it is a factor though in our relationship no doubt so it has to mentioned my salary and the fact I don't pay anything for her. Or buy her shit



Would anyone like to submit something constructive so that if one of our brethren falls into a bizarre situation such as this he has some sort of guide?

I doubt I'm the one she truly loves even though she tells me all the time and how much she has cried over me. She cries cause I don't believe her. Which I don't.... Actions speak louder than words.

In the future I see her helping me with my business connections and networking to a substantial degree.

This probably isn't the answer you want to hear...

Lets look at things from her perspective... Why would she want to give up her profession for you?

She makes alot of money. She hangs out with high status guys. Probably gets alot of free drinks, drugs, food, cars, clothes, houses whatever the fuck from all those guys with out having ANY type of commitment to them... Why would she NOT ride that gravy train until the very fucking end? I know I would if I were a hot with a vagina.

Unless you can replace all of that for her... You don't have a shot bro. Sorry to break it to you, but until her champagne well runs dry, she's not gonna want to drink your water. No matter how good it is.

Just a theory here, but what if we come at that from the other direction.

What if she wants to get out of that lifestyle, and does like this guy... but his refusal to spend any money on her, not to mention actually requesting money FROM her, has her feeling like he isn't looking for a serious relationship and can't/won't support her.

I guess I'd suggest actually talking about this to her. Ask her if she has any plans to quit at some point, without making it seem like you want her to or are trying to force her. If she brings up a serious relationship, and you do want one, I'd tell her you'd want one but can't see doing that while she has this job.

I guess in the idea of her leaving her lifestyle to spend it with me and settling down is nothing more than a pipe dream.

I can't ever be prince charming without turning into a sugar daddy..... Ugh.

I've done a decent job avoiding oneitis with her by pursuing several girls. She's just the one that clicks with me the most I guess .


Thanks for the input guys.





PS I've bailed her out jail and helped her get an apartment, she knows I'm willing to support. But she know I ain't about to get tricked.