Hi gentlemen,

Kinda in a situation that is bothering me a little. Met this amazing girl from another country, and we went out on a extremely amazing date that didn't turned into sex because, problem 1: she is based in another city and she couldn't bring me over to her place because of the accommodation restrictions (exchange student, and i know it is true!). Problem 2 is that she is going back next week. We agreed to meet this past weekend but she needed to pull off because of some exams she was studying for. Because of such situation I built this rapport based on the "unique" connection we had, and she responded great to that, and we basically said that we like each other. And told her that I could go to her city get a hotel and stay one night with her in order to have "one last time together". Now she hasn't responded in 3 days, and I don't know what to do anymore. I know that if she wasn't interested she would have denied straight way, and she was busy lately. I didn't texted her and I really want to bang this girl, she is one of those I would keep around! Does anybody have any advice if I should text her again and how? Because I am sure that if I put a small bit of pressure she will definitely flake.

Thank you,

That's not true actually... Some girls find it much easier to just accept, then deal with your rejection virtually via text or phone or whatever... And that sounds like what's happening here.

She's pulling a fade out with you.

I agree with you in parts. Because the thing is that, she put a lot of effort in saying how our date was very special to her and also saying that wants to still keep in touch with me when she gets back home, showing a lot of emotional investment. That is why I got really confident in moving forward in planning to see each other again. If she is pulling a fade out with me now, why she would even bother replying to my initial text?

You're missing my point.

It doesn't matter why. That's what she's doing. Have you never pulled a fade out? Do you ever tell the girl the reason? Of course not.

You need to game other women. This is just one girl.

Of course! I am gaming other girls, she is not a big deal! (never was, i am fairly good in building connection to the girls on dates)

I was just curious to see if I could bang her still, defo worth a try because she is really hot! I didn't see as a rejection yet, since I got other cases when girls would reply even after a week and the thing would be still on. I was only wondering if I could provoke something to get a response, due to all the circumstances. But whatever, thanks anyway!

I'll tell you where you fucked up....

You went out on a date with out having ANY of the logistics figured out.

Creative logistics = Success

Learn to think outside of the box (no pun intended)

Yeah, that is true man. I planned the whole day with the gir, got her to awesome different places, but I only could stay in her city for the day. I counted on that she would bring me to her place, in which I was confident because I have done this kinda shit before! But when things got dirty she said that her accommodation doesn't allow visitors, and the bathroom nearby was disgusting. :/ well, whatever, it is gone now.

Do nothing.

You have to be willing to let it go for her to come around.

She knows what she promised and she knows what she said. You're crossing her mind without a doubt; so when she wants to reach out to you she WILL reach out to you. If she doesn't she doesn't, but messaging again is you trying to aggressively force her into giving you what you want.

Thats not the way to go.

You have to let go and wait..

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Yeah, that is the right thing to do. Thanks Eddie.F

Just a quick update!

Didn't do anything, and she texted me back, now we are meeting in her city, and the same mistakes won't happen this time.