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PostPosted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 12:16 am 
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You cooking or her cooking, really makes little difference. There is no "right way to do this".
The reason doing things for a girl can be bad, is when it's coming from a place of neediness(I need to cook for her to ensure she likes me >,<).

I will absolutely not let some of the girls I've dated, cook for me. They are terrible cooks. Hellhound's main point is to make sure this girl has actual roles. You don't want to be spending time with a woman who does nothing and just sits around looking good. She needs to be contributing. It doesn't have to be cooking(unless I'm missing something about what he's saying). And ultimately it is not all that big a deal. If she likes you and likes how you fuck her, something like cooking is not going to have any impact on seeing her again.

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You cooking or her cooking, really makes little difference. There is no "right way to do this".
The reason doing things for a girl can be bad, is when it's coming from a place of neediness(I need to cook for her to ensure she likes me >,<).

I will absolutely not let some of the girls I've dated, cook for me. They are terrible cooks. Hellhound's main point is to make sure this girl has actual roles. You don't want to be spending time with a woman who does nothing and just sits around looking good. She needs to be contributing. It doesn't have to be cooking(unless I'm missing something about what he's saying). And ultimately it is not all that big a deal. If she likes you and likes how you fuck her, something like cooking is not going to have any impact on seeing her again.

Thats exactly why im saying I cook and she can clean and iron and that shit. I enjoy cooking so why would i want her to do it especially if she sucks at it. Having good cooking skills can also show her your an independent man and dont need no HOE ! hahah kidding but yeah i know what you guys are saying she cant sit around and be lazy she needs value and to be constantly working for you.

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PostPosted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 11:29 am 
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I will absolutely not let some of the girls I've dated, cook for me. They are terrible cooks. Hellhound's main point is to make sure this girl has actual roles. You don't want to be spending time with a woman who does nothing and just sits around looking good. She needs to be contributing. It doesn't have to be cooking(unless I'm missing something about what he's saying).
Conditioning can be before and after sex or both.

Before sex, you can condition the girl to do your laundry, ironing your shirt or your tax preparation if she is an accountant. If she did a good job, you bang her good. You can do the reward at random or steady at first and then at random. Operant conditioning works better than classical conditioning but you can combine both types of conditioning to greater effect.

If she's not willing to do any nice thing for you, you can withhold a type of orgasm that she likes best like say pounding her cervix for some cervical orgasm or giving her just one vaginal orgasm instead of six consecutive ones.

After sex, she will be too tired at this point, so it's really punishing her rather than rewarding you to ask her to clean the entire house. A simple breakfast of sunny side up eggs, hotdogs and toasted bread will do; not some fucking French toast with truffles or cheesy blueberry pancakes or some other gourmet breakfast. Start with simple compliance tests so you set the stage for girls to give you bigger ones later on during the day.

You can also ask her to make coffee for you or just a plain old peanut butter sandwich to keep things simple. The point really is, she should reward you for banging her good but not to the point of punishing her by being inconsiderate of her physical situation. When girls just had their multiple orgasms, they want to be lazy a bit. They tend to be hyperactive after a few hours though so you can exploit this cycle.

You can cook whatever you like for her as long as you don't make it a habit to cook her breakfast after she gives you a taste of her pussy.

You might not be aware that you are already conditioning her that every time she let's you bang her pussy, you do something nice for her. If this is the case, eventually, she will give you bigger compliance tests after you cook her breakfast.

The proper frame should be: After she gets a taste of your cock, she should reward you for letting her use your cock.

The equation is very simple gentlemen. You should lead girls with your cock and not let girls lead you with their pussy.

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Before sex, you can condition the girl to do your laundry, ironing your shirt ...
Can you suggest a more specific detailed way to ask her to do it. This will be of a very use for me, since I don't have a wash machine and iron in my house and I do it manually.

Or if I just proceed straight direct... how about that.

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PostPosted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 4:48 pm 
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First option is you gotta read the nonverbal cues when she is super horny. When she is super horny, ask her to do something nice for you.

Second option is to heat her up when she is not super horny and then ask her to do something nice for you like ironing your shirt.

Once she gets used to the routine of, say, her ironing your shirts which almost always leads to good sex with you, she'll iron your shirts or clean your house when she wants to fuck.

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Lowrider.. Try giving all the details because you're going to get advice that contradicts itself and will only set you back further. In one thread you're getting told to be less tit for tat, now on this thread your being told to get favors. Both advice is good but you're gonna get conflicted and confused.


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PostPosted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 7:20 pm 
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The reason why cooking breakfast is a bad move is because you are sub-communicating to the girl that you are trying to impress her, you are trying to keep her by treating her to breakfast in bed. It comes from the same mindset as treating her to a dinner date before you've had sex with her (NEVER do this!!!).

Next time you wake up next to a girl you've fucked, pull a face and try this line: "I'm hungry". If you fucked her good, she will get up and make you breakfast. This will keep her emotionally invested in you. Girls like their man to be challenging. If you shower her with breakfasts and affection for no reason, she will stop respecting you and start acting up. She will see how much bad behaviour she can get away with. A lot of you guys who end up in 'bad' relationships could have had good relationships with those same girls if only you'd trained your girls correctly from the beginning.


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Lowrider.. Try giving all the details because you're going to get advice that contradicts itself and will only set you back further. In one thread you're getting told to be less tit for tat, now on this thread your being told to get favors. Both advice is good but you're gonna get conflicted and confused.
I got physical with her (same girl from my other threads). But I don't feel she is super wayyyy attracted into me.
Our relations exists more like because we are friends and share common values and interests, although we make out every time we see each other.

I'm more experienced sexually than her and I lead the game but I try to not over do it since it might shock her. (she had sex only once or only with one guy). I want to keep her as a friend but as a lover too. So I don't want to act too arrogant bad guy and get used of her. I will not also let be used instead.

@Hunter Fox - I get your point. But I did it from a sense of generosity and not to impress her (but in a way its kind of selfish and trying to satisfy some inner part of me by doing it). It just came natural to me to cook in the morning. But I get your point - if I do things for her for no reason she will (consciously or not) try to take advantage of this - i know this from past experience so will not do it again. Nice point to remember ;)

I agree with the idea for conditioning her to do stuff for me after I pleased her.

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PostPosted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 7:50 pm 
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Nobody is generous for no reason. Even if you expect nothing in return, you are still doing it because you want the girl to think highly of you. Or just because you like the feeling of being generous (selfish). Generosity is a sign of submission and frames you as a provider. Girls will thank you for all the free shit, use you and then cheat on you.

Just stop making breakfast and stop going on dinner dates. You'll thank me later when your girls start coming back for more.


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Wait so you didn't have sex with her?


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PostPosted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 7:53 pm 
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p.s. I can guarantee that no girl in the world ever broke things off with a new guy "because he didn't make breakfast".

"Because he was too clingy" however, is probably the most common reason a girl's pussy dries up.


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p.s. I can guarantee that no girl in the world ever broke things off with a new guy "because he didn't make breakfast".

"Because he was too clingy" however, is probably the most common reason a girl's pussy dries up.
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PostPosted: Tue Dec 02, 2014 9:25 am 
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Nobody is generous for no reason. Even if you expect nothing in return, you are still doing it because you want the girl to think highly of you. Or just because you like the feeling of being generous (selfish). Generosity is a sign of submission and frames you as a provider. Girls will thank you for all the free shit, use you and then cheat on you.

Just stop making breakfast and stop going on dinner dates. You'll thank me later when your girls start coming back for more.

What alot of BS. You sound like the most butt hurt guy i've ever heard.

Dont take a girl on a dinner date ! WTF so if ive been seeing a girl for a couple of months ive not to take her out and treat her good for being good and loyal ! hahah get a grip dude some BS posts on this forum.
Its shit like that, that kids read and think awww i gotta be a dick all the time. When you become a real man let me know.

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p.s. I can guarantee that no girl in the world ever broke things off with a new guy "because he didn't make breakfast".

"Because he was too clingy" however, is probably the most common reason a girl's pussy dries up.
This.
You guys are honestly so deluded into being complete assholes to woman.
YES FUCK A WOMAN AND HAVE HER SUPER HORNY AND FUCK HER THE BEST SHES EVER HAD !

BUT

YOU CAN TREAT A WOMAN NICE AND WITH RESPECT IF YOU WANT TO GET UP AND MAKE HER BREAKFAST YOU CAN ! IF YOU WANT TO TAKE HER ON A DINNER DATE BECAUSE SHE WAS WEARING HER STOCKINGS AND SEXY UNDERWEAR FOR YOU LAST WEEK YOU CAN !

NO wonder PUA's get such a bad name. Glad im perfectly happy with my abilities and my success than getting drawn in by this garbage.

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p.s. I can guarantee that no girl in the world ever broke things off with a new guy "because he didn't make breakfast".

"Because he was too clingy" however, is probably the most common reason a girl's pussy dries up.
This.
You guys are honestly so deluded into being complete assholes to woman.
YES FUCK A WOMAN AND HAVE HER SUPER HORNY AND FUCK HER THE BEST SHES EVER HAD !

BUT

YOU CAN TREAT A WOMAN NICE AND WITH RESPECT IF YOU WANT TO GET UP AND MAKE HER BREAKFAST YOU CAN ! IF YOU WANT TO TAKE HER ON A DINNER DATE BECAUSE SHE WAS WEARING HER STOCKINGS AND SEXY UNDERWEAR FOR YOU LAST WEEK YOU CAN !

NO wonder PUA's get such a bad name. Glad im perfectly happy with my abilities and my success than getting drawn in by this garbage.
Agree with that.

IMO there has to be some balance between the bad boy/challenge type of guy and the nice/respectful man.

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