Situation:

So there's this girl that I just wanna bang her brains out because of all the emotional shit she's put me through.
I've never had sex with her before.
I've never had a girlfriend before but this girl is the closest I've come to having one.
I haven't talked to her in seven months and she randomly texts me the other day.
I ask her if she wants to see me and she says, "Yes!"
I told her she could come over and the conversation ends with good repoire.

I didn't get a text from her after that, and I see a snap story of her at a party.
She texts me at around 12AM saying, "What's up" probably a drunk text, but I know that she was thinking of me.
I haven't replied, and I'm wondering what to say to her, because I know she went to the party and chose not to come over to my place.

In the past even she basically cheated on me I came back to her. I feel like she thinks that she's the "prize" and that I will always come crawling back. But I want to the tables to turn, and I want to fuck her just so I can feel like all that invested time was worth it.

I want to be an asshole to her and get her to want me, but it's hard for me to be an asshole to girls. I don't know why. What should I do? What should I say? I don't want to seem needy.

The best way to not seem need, is to not be needy.
I think you need to meet other girls, and you'll find yourself viewing this situation very differently.

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Okay thanks for the response.

This is great advice.

Jealousy is probably the best weapon in your arsenal for this type of situation, too. Go out with other girls... Hot ones.

If she finds out about it, that'd be great.

Okay thanks for the response.

Lol

Slow down handsome John.. If a girl text me at 12am in the morning I automatically assume its because she wants me to have sex with her. Did that not cross your mind? That she would have a few drinks at the party and then contact you?

But all in all man, I can't support your efforts and I hope no one else does either. No one can put you through ANYTHING that you don't allow them to put your through. You have to be a man and accept some responsibility. You let her treat you like shit in the past; why are you blaming her for something you let her do?

I'd just recommend you move on, because at the rate you're going you're going to tie yourself into something emotionally that will do more damage than you're ready to handle.

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Those are some good intentions there haus.

I usually fuck girls because they we are attracted to each other and we turn each other on. Not because we want to get back at each other for emotional trauma caused. You're acting like a child.

I bet this girl just can't wait for you to hate fuck her brains out... C'mon man.

Thanks for the replies guys.