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PostPosted: Fri Nov 28, 2014 4:23 am 
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We all may have our own definition of vibes and how we may translate it as we associate with people on a daily basis.

A "vibe" to someone may be that instinctual premonition you get about someone, or maybe something deeper that we can feel with a person when we first meet them.

To me, a "vibe" is an instantaneous, subconscious connection that you may have with a women upon first meeting them.

With that being said.

If you meet a woman and you get an instant thought that "damn shes is something else" and you start to stutter and react physically to her (this is deeper than just "i wana fuck") does this usually mean that this is reflected upon on her.

Long question short, If you feel something does she feel something similar to how you feel or do these "feelings" have little to do with what she may feel about you?

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 28, 2014 4:02 pm 
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I've read this a couple times. I don't think I understand what you're asking...

But I'll take a shot:

I think if you react/vibe out on a girl and start getting flustered and nervous, then yes - she'll pick up on that, but I don't think it's going to have any kind of mirroring effect on her.

If anything it may be a turn off - as it sort of illustrates a mild lack of confidence.

That's my 2 cents anyway... Assuming I interpreted that correctly.


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 28, 2014 4:17 pm 
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From my experience, the girl feels what you feel. This is kinda the foundation of 'game'.

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From my experience, the girl feels what you feel. This is kinda the foundation of 'game'.

I may have completely misunderstood what was being asked here - LOL


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 28, 2014 4:55 pm 
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yeah, i'm still unsure myself, you could be still on track...

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I'm a little tuned but I think he was trying to say if I'm insanely attracted to a girl, does that mean she's attracted to me as well?

The short answer, no.

When I first started going out, every time I would see a "goddess" I would imagine we had an automatic connection somehow but it was all in my head.

If you're insanely attracted to a girl, there's a good possibility (unless you like odd girls) that every other guy thinks the same thing.

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You need to go on a cut. You have a shit ton of muscle under all that fat, and you're going to see your female interest jump by a lot when you do. Even %15BF would probably have you with a lot of options.
Right now you're manly, but kind of scary, and not in a sexy way. More in a crazy mountain man way. I don't think the beard/body hair is helping, either.

This is about your old twitter pics, not the topic :D

As for what "vibe" you give off... again, the better you look, the more leeway you get here. Getting a girl basically boils down to talking to a girl who is at least somewhat sexually interested in you, getting her horny, and then getting her somewhere for sex. You don't have to, and largely can't win a woman over. Mostly, you'll find that the majority of women you sleep with, were really into you right from the start, and you didn't do much to "get" her.

If you're looking for a girlfriend, then the path of least resistance is commonalities. It's much easier to date girls who are into the same things that you are.

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You need to go on a cut. You have a shit ton of muscle under all that fat, and you're going to see your female interest jump by a lot when you do. Even %15BF would probably have you with a lot of options.
Right now you're manly, but kind of scary, and not in a sexy way. More in a crazy mountain man way. I don't think the beard/body hair is helping, either.

This is about your old twitter pics, not the topic :D

As for what "vibe" you give off... again, the better you look, the more leeway you get here. Getting a girl basically boils down to talking to a girl who is at least somewhat sexually interested in you, getting her horny, and then getting her somewhere for sex. You don't have to, and largely can't win a woman over. Mostly, you'll find that the majority of women you sleep with, were really into you right from the start, and you didn't do much to "get" her.

If you're looking for a girlfriend, then the path of least resistance is commonalities. It's much easier to date girls who are into the same things that you are.
Jesus Christ...Finally someone who gets it.

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You need to go on a cut. You have a shit ton of muscle under all that fat, and you're going to see your female interest jump by a lot when you do. Even %15BF would probably have you with a lot of options.
Right now you're manly, but kind of scary, and not in a sexy way. More in a crazy mountain man way. I don't think the beard/body hair is helping, either.

This is about your old twitter pics, not the topic :D

As for what "vibe" you give off... again, the better you look, the more leeway you get here. Getting a girl basically boils down to talking to a girl who is at least somewhat sexually interested in you, getting her horny, and then getting her somewhere for sex. You don't have to, and largely can't win a woman over. Mostly, you'll find that the majority of women you sleep with, were really into you right from the start, and you didn't do much to "get" her.

If you're looking for a girlfriend, then the path of least resistance is commonalities. It's much easier to date girls who are into the same things that you are.
Jesus Christ...Finally someone who gets it.
yes yes i know i need to cut... Finding the motivation to do so is the toughest part.

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