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I kind of stood back on this one, because it would be so easy to mess it up and creep her out. But if I were to attempt it, I'd think that the goal would be for her to see me as a sexual being. Attempting to be to direct can backfire and being indirect may end up making her uncomfortable. Normally you shouldn't care about the outcome, but she's in the bed next to you.
Here's what I would do and it's kind of playing a long game:
1. I would invite her out to be my wing. I'd do this so she could see me and perhaps assist me with getting another women. I'd make her want the attention that I'm giving other women.
2. Show her I'm in demand. I'd make sure she'd hear my phone ring and make it obvious when texting with another woman. Let her know that these communications with other women are sexual in nature.
3. Compare her to other women. I'd want her to believe that there is something about her that wasn't quite up to my standard. More than likely I'd hint around that I think she wouldn't be kinky enough in the bedroom. I would also make sure I would keep it playful when I did this.
4. Playful kino.
5. Follow her playbook and change in front of her. I'd take it a step further ask her opinion on what I'm wearing because it's important for me to look good for other women that aren't her.
The goal is you want her to qualify herself to you. You want her to look over at you and know that other women want you. You want her to start thinking, "why am I helping him get other women when I'm right here?"
Good advice here.
What you need to keep in mind.
1. This girl probably isn't attracted to you right now. If she is regularly talking to you like your one of the girls she thinks of you as a little brother or a gay friend. You are not sex worthy in her eyes right now.
2. If you do a complete 180 right now, and turn from her guy buddy, to this guy that is constantly hitting on her, she will be wierded out. That's why its important to start escalating and flirting with a girl right when you meet her. But you haven't done that so it will take some time to adjust.
3. Right now you are focusing all your attention on this girl. That is not good. Period. Stop it and go hit on other girls. Approach other girls, get them out on dates, escalate, get good with them. Become social and fun. Really spend time on it.
4. Once you get decent at it, let your room mate see you with other girls that you are taking out on dates, bring girls home and screw them or make out with them even if your room mate is around. Bring them on the balcony for sex if you have to. Let your room mate know that you have options and are a sexual being.
5. BTW, wen hitting on girls, use your female room mate to your advantage. If you mention it when you start talking to a girl, she automatically thinks "he's not a creepy rapist or anything, he lives with a girl so he's at least not dangerous". and it will also cause a bit of jealousy if a girl likes you but you have a girl you live with that you see in her panties all the time. Even bring it up. Make up a story about how you and your room mate were cooking dinner, and she always walk around in her underwear, and she went to reach for something and her bra fell down. Just make it interesting and funny. This will increase attraction and jealousy which is good.
6. The better you get with girls and the more options you have the more your room mate will want you. You can invite her out with you to a bar where she can watch you hit on girls and be your wingman. At the end of the night, maybe she's had a drink or two, bring up "hey you've been single a while, what kind of guy do you want, ill be your wingman". Eventually get to the subject that she's been single a while, make a funny comment like "you poor thing, I can't imagine how frustrated I'd be if I never got any for that long." The sexual tension will be crazy high during a talk like this. Then just kiss her with authority and bring her home and do the deed.
But the most important part, don't treat her like a princess, and talk to other girls. This will change the way you look at everything when you have options and confidence.
CHAT
