Hey guys,

Met this girl online and we've been texting back and forth for a few days. She's quite the talker so I get essays in response to my texts but I am pretty sure that she is interested and very much into me.

She keeps qualifying herself and usually she hits me up first and I then just lead the conversation on.

I have asked her out and she is def up for it but she's actually been busy with family and stuff during the holidays so I still need to lock her down for a date. My question is given the fact that's she's actually Hooked now do I still need to wait for her to text me first or should I open occasionally too? We've pretty much talked very day since we started talking and she hasn't texted me today yet so I've been trying to decide whether to open her or not?

I don't want her to feel like I'm not interested and I also don't want the attraction to fizzle out. What should my course of action be this point onwards?

I appreciate all the regulars who post on this forum as I have actually taken control of this aspect of my life thanks to you guys now.

If she's demonstrated all that to you, then DO show some interest any way you feel comfortable and meet her on a week day. I fucked up in a similar way with a really hot girl by not showing her enough interest and letting the attraction fade because in my mind I was "gaming".

This is a piece of advice that stuck with me, hope it helps you, "Playing games and having game are not the same".

Do what comes natural without being stupid.

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Like the ratio be about 3-2 man.. Hit her up twice for every three times she hits you up. Girls definitely like to feel some investment on the guys part.

My girlfriend recently started giving me shit because I never call her. I don't think i've called her on my own for about 3 weeks before yesterday. She's always the one calling me, and so I've been spoiled. And now I call every once in a while and she's happy about it.

You're fine to hit up her. Just make sure its what you want to do. Don't go forcing it because you're afraid to lose her. Contact her when you want to talk to her.

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The biggest turn off when it comes to women is ambiguity. Indecisive women, women who are confused, unsure or hot and cold. As a younger man, I would wait patiently thinking she might figure it out but, through pkckup, I learn that the course of action is as always, more cold approach. Online is fine. I think man should take full advantage of technology, tinder, etc.

The thing that seems to work is astronomical online messages as in, copy +paste, and then, follow up. If she makes a lame excuse, she is not interested or is somewhat interest but, you are among the a-z list. No thank you mzzzzzz.

Online game is fine. Times have changed. Just make sure you still go out, do cold approach, and fine tune what pickup is about. As you get older, people disappear, friends move, people have kids or get married, and most people stop being cool. People think you have to settle down cause society promotes it. Its nice to have a gf and regular sex but, it also has consequences if things fail which they usually do.

Can I suck your cock? lol

Best post I've seen on this forum in a while. Everyone needs to think like this. Things are so much simpler and more fun.