Hi there, can you give me some advice please. This girl that I speak to online is in town. I havent been able to see her yet because I have had a flu. She wants to go to a village with me, but Its a headache trying to organise. Some of them are an hour away, the nearest ones are too near london and she doesent want to go to them. Travelling with her for that long to get to these places, its going to kill the vibe of when we first meet.
I want to take her to a restaurant, but mostly I want to make an impulsive visit and turn up outside where she is staying, unannounced and with her favourite croissants and sweets , and then go for a walk with her and hold hands. And I want to do it tommorow night. But I dont have her address yet. How do I pull this off? Is it a good idea and what do you think of this idea?
I dont want to wait for a set date to meet her, I want to meet her right now. We are both wasting time waiting for a certain day to meet when we could do it now and have fun. Take matters into my own hands. To take advantage of her beeing in the same proximity.

Have some patience. Get her willing to meet up and to plan it. Dont do it unnannounced and spontanous. Women do not like that when you have not priorly met her. At best case scenerio youd walk in on her unprepared. Women are not like us... She doesnt want to meet you without a full day of putting on makeup and nice clothes. It may not matter to you but to her it measn a lot.

I would think long and hard about spontaneously showing up where she's staying when you've never met her. That'll either be received really well, or (more likely if you ask me) be a disaster.

That has stalker and creepy written all over it, while it's fairly clear to me that's not your actual intention.

If you don't want to wait for a restaurant or village hopping, then say you feel like a drink and get her to join you.

Good points. Its just, I dont want to go around villages, its a long drive, im going to end up getting lost, we are going to have long silences in the car, it will kill the vibe. Normally if i wanted to go to these places by myself i would just take a train because its easier and less aggrovation, but i dont think she will approve going there by train. Sunday morning she wants to get up early and go. I want to meet her though, asap. I feel like we are wasting time trying to organise these different villages, when I just want to meet. While she is still here. I want to go to cinemas, restaurants, cook her dinner, spend the night at my place, all that fun stuff.
But she has been here a week already and we havent met in person yet.

Have patience dude. Some girls might think that whole scenario is sweet and all, but I can garuntee if you do this to any girl that you haven’t connected with in person first, she will think it’s incredibly creepy.

Just get an actual date with her. I would save the surprise visits and stuff for girls you’re actually dating or involved with.

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Well ok, I waited for the agreed upon date that we were going to meet which was today. I spent the weekend organising where we were going to go, how we were going to get there, where we were going to eat. And then I show up at her hotel to meet her and the receptionist tells me that she has been gone since this morning. He told me to ask one of her roommates where she was, and she gave me the same story but that she would be back in the evening. I tried ringing her phone, which was turned off, I texted her, no answer. I waited for about an hour and a half in reception. She still didn't turn up so I left.
About an hour later she sent me a message ''im so sorry. im so unbelievably sorry'' but I didn't bother replying to her.
Did I do the right thing?

surprise visit. stalker alert.

Lose her number, man. That'd be it for me...

Show patience person. Some females might feel that complete predicament is sweet as well as many, but I am able to garuntee if you that in order to just about any lady which you haven’t linked with in person initial, she will believe it’s very scary.

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