Hi All.

I'm a short guy 5'5". I've been messaging a hot girl online. She seems like an 7 and she's taller than me. Her profile say 5'8". There are a couple of pictures of me on my profile in a group of friends showing how tall I am in comparison so I'm pretty sure she knows I'm not a tall guy.

We've exchanged numbers and have been texting back and forth a bit. We've decided to go visit some touristy places on sunday. That's gonna be our first date and I'm a bit freaked out! She's tall and curvy and I'm 3 inches shorter than her. I feel like i'll be dwarfed in front of her and there won't be any physical attraction!

What do I do?

My initial plan was meet up at a place close to my house so that I can invite over to my place before we head out and then bring her back to my place again. But we've decided to meet in her side of town.

Sorry for the poor english. I am not a native english speaker.

Ps: she doesn't drink.

Good on you mate! Don't come off as insecure about it. If she brings it up, just say "it takes a strong man to date a tall woman" which is totally true. Who could argue with that?

Wear some shoes with a bit of lift in them if you're worried about it.

Seriously though - it's who you are. Fuck it... own it.

I would not mention it at all.

Thanks bud. I've gotten an ego boost from your simple words. I can sense she's into me. I asked for her email and she gave me her digits instead.

I'll definitely be wearing shoes with some lift and hope she wears flats.

Can't wait to see how things are gonna play out!

It only makes a difference to her if it makes a difference to you. Simple as that. If you let the fact that she's shorter than you affect your game, she'll notice and it will have an effect on her attraction for you. If you don't give a shit and you're as cool as you seem like it won't be a problem man.

Theres always going to be something about a girl that makes you think twice; at least if she's worth your while. For this girl its just the height, for the next girl it will be something else. We all have those barriers, but fuck em. They ain't ever stopped you before, why let them stop you now.

I've been with short tall, black, white, smart, dumb etc. With each came its own mental barriers.

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Thanks for the perspective bro. It's given me a lot of confidence for the date