my problem is why should mens viewing habits be monitored by feminists? i find it funny, the movies fatal attraction and indecent proposal were produced by sherry lansing who has said shes a feminist. what are these films about a woman stalks a man and his family after an affair, and a guy pimps his wife out for a million dollars.... strangely theres no issue with them movies!!!

what is wrong with a guy saying i want sex but i only wanna fuck hot girls! ugly girls well they can be married off to the weak beta males,

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Holy fuck, would you guys give him a break? In the space of a couple of weeks he's gone from being a successful PUA with a booming business making a lot of money doing what he loves to being called "the most hated man in the world" in fucking international headlines and being called a RAPIST for fucks sake. It's a little hard to maintain your "core confidence" when everything you have built your life upon is literally falling to pieces around you. His entire family, all his friends, everyone he knows, probably a huge proportion of women he would try to game in the future all now have seen him labelled as a sexist, racist rapist and who knows if his business will ever recover? All this going on and you guys call him a fraud because he seems a little nervous on the interview that is being watched AROUND THE ENTIRE FUCKING WORLD where he is defending claims of him being a RAPIST. He's not a fraud, he's a fucking normal human being. I think in those terrible circumstances he did well to even appear as confident as he did. With this disaster going on I can't believe you guys expect him to go on CNN and act like he's leading a fucking seminar. Try a little basic human empathy before you judge.

On a related note, I have watched the video that caused all the controversy and it's clear the guy went way too far. I feel bad for those Japanese girls, clearly he got too good at game for his own good and got caught up in his own ego and ended up acting stupid, reckless and disrespectful, however saying that I still think he's a good teacher and I hope he manages to bounce back.

wow, Julien didn't come across very well on the CNN interview, what happened to all the core confidence stuff, looked like a deer in the head lights.

What interview did you watch?

1. Where was the world RAPE used and where was he defending being a rapist?

2. Everything he's built his life upon is falling apart. How? He still works for RSD. Are his MALE clients against him? He can't enter a few countries. Sure his work is limited and it sucks but it's not like he's fired. In fact, the only negative is the bans. This could be great publicity for Julien and RSD domestically if he had owned it.

3. Julien has played the asshole before. Any girl he dated could easily have viewed his videos online. Any girl could have viewed his twitter. I thought he was an asshole to women...what's the surprise now to women he dates? He was putting this stuff out for thousands of views and supposedly living this asshole lifestyle. He had a video fucking a woman online and videos and doing douechbag stuff, lying to women, pulling them home all over the internet. So was he not a true asshole and now would be afraid he looks like one now, or was he an asshole and everyone already knew it? It doesn't make sense to say Julien comes off as an asshole that doesn't care, and now he's afraid people see him as an asshole. In fact, since he IS an asshole and has this title, it would probably be easier to fuck the type of chicks he was fucking right?

I just don't get the excuses. A guy who as being an asshole apologetically for years and putting his stuff out there is caught.So what? If he DOES use asshole game to pull women, this is a bonus for him. If he doesn't then yes this makes it harder. If I had paid $3k to this guy, took his advice to do what I want, and had become an asshole in my town with a bad rep but some lays, to see him care about his rep and go back on that would piss me. This is why so many guys get defrauded in pickup. Julien's desperate tinder messages and pleas and insults when rejected....I'm sorry if I think a dating coach should actually be somewhat smooth. I guess if he's chasing fatties on tinder and sending them 5 messages with no response to get sex its not because he isn't as cool as he seems, it's "self amusement."

Listen up you fucking little creep. No man has the right to grab a girl and shove her face in his crotch. Fucking get a clue you dumb cunt. If you guys really think oh so what ... who cares ... you will end up in jail on sexual assault charges. Have you fucking got that? That Julien prick has been banned from so many countries because of his sick, demeaning views on women so what the fuck does that tell you? It fucking tells you to treat women with respect. Not like a piece of fucking meat that you can just grab whenever you want because you're a dumb ass male.

That kind of behaviour is sexual assault. Grabbing her by the throat is threatening behaviour and assault. Christ you guys have no idea how the fuck to get women without being a fucking dick head.

Would you like to see some fucking creep grab your sister or mother and do that to her? Get a fucking clue, grow the fuck up and treat women with some fucking respect. Bunch of fucking morons on here. He deserved to be banned because he's a fucking, up himself cunt. Even in his interview he was a fucking jerk and back tracked on everything he said and grovelled like hell for forgiveness. Some fucking hero he is and all you idiots on here just suck it up like the dumb ass losers you are.

you mad bro? but seriously calm down man, he has a point and so do you

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Observation... Even though people have their disputes here, and don't agree on everything, the discussion is MUCH more nuansed here than other places. Comments on newspaper articles are really ignorant and stupid. End of observation.

Pickup is not smooth. It's messy. Admittedly some lays are easier than others if her buying temperature is high, but the whole process of picking up women is often fraught with "un-smooth" challenges. You regularly have to deal with:

1) Female friends of hers cock blocking you (usually jealous fatties)
2) Her anti-slut mechanisms designed to keep you interested, whether she wants to fuck you or not
3) Anything from one, but up to a whole sausage-fest of chodes trying to cockblock you. Not just the other guys in the club, but could be guys in her group who have a much stronger connection with her, such as brothers, cousins, work colleagues, flat mates, college friends, tenuously linked orbiters or friend-zoned close guy friends.
4) Environmental cockblockers if you are pulling outside a club, such as her innate fear of strangers (day game), fear of the loss of her reputation (college game) or even the fear of the loss of your friendship.

So you can't usually pull this off and still look smooth, nor should you even care about looking cool. Every wing I've ever had who either said they were 'smooth' or whose actions were smooth just weren't getting the results I was getting from what I observed from them over an extended period. Smooth means you are trying too hard to act suave and sophisticated. Basically you are trying to look cool, but it's just another form of putting women on a pedestal. You are trying to impress them and "earn" them with your coolness. Fuck that shit, grow some balls.

I agree that some of Julien's stuff sounds needy out of context. But the principle of what he does is that once you get rejected, you should kill the interaction completely so that you are no longer attached to that girl. This allows you to "burn your bridges", there's no going back, so you can approach the next girl from ground zero, with no baggage from the previous girl. Although my style is not needy like Julien when I kill off an interaction, I still follow the principle of killing off leads which are going nowhere. Mainly because I hate wasting time with one girl if it's taking too long and also because I hate missing out on opportunities elsewhere just because I'm hung up on one girl who has put me in the "maybe" stage. The worst place you can be with a girl is in the "maybe" stage. She won't fuck you, but she still leads you on because she likes the attention. Also, very occasionally your killing of the interaction peaks her interest again because it gives her an emotional spike of feeling out of it.

Either way, if I haven't fucked a girl by the end of a 2nd date, I generally stop calling and texting her. I open new girls in the mean time, then if she still chases me, I decide whether she's worth it or not. This makes you more scarce (mysterious), show that you have an abundance of options (pre selection) and shows you don't tolerate frumpy behaviour (masculinity/leadership).

The guys who are calling Julien a rapist loser clearly don't get it. If he was actually squeezing hard on girls' throats all over the world, don't you think at least ONE girl would have reported him and had him arrested by now? He places his hand on her throat, he doesn't actually squeeze it. It's just a pre-cursor to Dom-Sub sex. It's the same reason why women fucking love 50 Shades of Grey. Can't fully defend pushing girls' heads into his crotch, but it's just a more crass example of dominant behaviour. If a rockstar did this to a fan, she would rip his trousers off and suck his dick like a vacuum.

I'm not saying I advocate what Julien does and I certainly wouldn't do it myself until I got to know the girl better, but you need to understand the slightly sarcastic but very confident cocky masculine vibe Julien projects to women. You are in no place to criticise Julien if you know nothing about the Dom-Sub / fetish culture.

I have a bigger problem with Julien's racism more than anything else.

An easy thing for Julien to say if he believed beforehand what he as doing. If Julien's style of game works for him, he should have said so. This is why I believe he was putting on an act. Because the truth would have been less damaging if he believed it that the sorry apology.

And by smooth, I meant the messages. Sure, burn bridges. But sending 5 messages that a girl after a girl has said no, all begging for sex is not smooth. It doesn't show abundance because you'd just move on. The bridge is already burned and at that point he's just begging for sex. If a girl has been stringing you along and flaking, sure say some fucked up shit or direct text to either get the meet up or the blow off. But hitting up tinder girls and baraging them with messages when they're not replying? I don't know how not to see a desperation and lack of abundance there. But RSD has sheltered themselves with their "amusement" concept. If I'm a RSD dating coach, I can have a 300lb gf who I buy expensive shit for and supplicate to and it doesn't mean I may be fraud, it just means I'm amusing myself. I'm a simple guy. Don't sell me core confidence when you've prepped for an interview and start it crying. Don't sell me do what the fuck I want, don't give a fuck about my rep, then when your rep catches up with you you fold when you didn't even do anything wrong or hurt anyone. There are many guys who took RSD's advice and fucked up their reputation with friends, girls, city, following the way Julien supposedly lived his life. If you're a business you're a business. Don't sell people advice that affects their own life. Don't pretend you're passionate about helping guys then not stand by your advice. Don't sell something and then go back and say it was a joke. I get it. It's a business. I'm just sick of meeting guys that get brainwashed by RSD and keep following them at the expense of their lives because of the whole "we make our own reality" bs.

wait how is julien racist?

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When talking about how to seduce a Japanese woman, he is quoted as saying: “Just grab her… To take the pressure off, yell Pikachu or Pokemon or Tamagotchi or something”.

Julien Blanc: Most Misunderstood Guy in The World

Not my video, credit to Holistikid - he makes some very good points in discussing this recent situation.

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I agreed that Julien's Tinder messages were needy, but so what? She already rejected him, so he had nothing more to lose. At least he burns his leads to the ground.

Lol he shouldve burned the interview to the ground since the damage is already done. The bans aren't getting lifted anyway right? Might as well have played the badboy, and gotten more guys interested in RSD. If he had owned it couldve even written a Guide to being the jerk/badboy which would have dwarfed his RSD money.

That's easy for you to say when you:
1) don't have to answer to an interview in front of millions of viewers who have all labelled you the most hated man in the world
2) don't have your entire career at stake
3) haven't been labelled as a worldwide racist rapist

His interview was damage limitation. He was never gonna come out of that interview looking good. Yes he could've done better but right now he's only banned from 2 countries. How many countries would've banned him he had followed your advice and said "no fuck you, I stand by what I said 100%, I am racist and I condone rapey tactics with women".