So I'm currently dragging along a couple of girls via SPAM, some of which are getting colder by the minute I feel like. Thing is I'm really fucking busy and also still renovating my apartment, which makes lays a bit difficult.

I'm trying different txt strategies with different girls, trying to figure out the best strategies. Maybe we can share thoughts on txt lenght, timing, general game plans and stuff.

- Girl 1: I know her back from high school (like 10 yrs ago) and had a huge crush on her. We met up once, it went well, but no k-close. She then flaked twice but kept insisting she wants to meet up, making loose suggestions, but also kind of friendzoneing me at the same time, by telling me about girlfriends of hers, that might like me and shit like that.
I froze her out, telling her that I like her, but don't have time for flakey girls. She kind of threw out a couple of loose date ideas, but I didn't take the bait until she finally made a solid suggestion with day attached. Now were gonna be meeting up on sunday. I kept all my replies short, but friendly (emoticons and stuff) and haven't started a conversation with her since we made plans. Should I message her again or wait for her? Would you start with something random or talk date details?

Sidenote: She is kind of a difficult one, incredibly open about sex, very high energy. Should I just kino the fuck out of her and go cave men on the next date? I kind of feel like she is used to friendzone guys and I really need to play that one risky.

- Girl 2: Met her over tinder, she blocked my tries to k-close. We kept in touch via SPAM but she was definitily not hooked. Haven't made any date suggestions since then. She does always reply when I text her random shit, but interest seems low. Now I have frozen her out for a couple of days. Should I even bother reiinitiating, I'm almost positive it ain't happening. Or should I wait a couple of week, maybe months?

- Girl 3: That one went pretty well. Met over tinder, k-closed on the first meet up, we text every day and she is helping me out with a movie shoot tomorrow. Should I even txt her anymore if we have already set another date. I kind of want her to keep guessing and not seem to needy. I usually wait about an hour to reply and will sometimes randomly not reply at all (she usually reiinitates the next day). Whats your policiy on txting between the first dates? Do you go along if she is very receptive or do you prefer to keep non-face to face contact to a minimum?