hey guys..there is a certain HB8 i picked up during day game but who friendzoned me..at first i was really pissed off lol but then i later accepted thought i should give friendship a chance.well the friendship doesn't. add anything to my life.every time we hang out she never comes along,comes with some HBs who are less hotter than her and i end up paying for everything..There is virtually no benefit i get from this friendship so i sat down nd though, "i really deserve better than this"..she is even the worst kind of friend to have as in one who is really hot ,you are attracted to her nd she sleeps around but she wont fuck you in a million not even if she is drunk and every time she has heartbroken she comes crying to me whining i end up listening to her whining for hours.So i cut her off stopped entirely talking to her stopped asking her to hang out so far she aint getting in touch but we may probably bump into each other and she will definately ask why i froze her out i don't want to be a dick so i want you guys to give me a perfect excuse..any suggestions?

There is no excuse. Tell her what you told us or just freeze her out completely. Be a man about it. Own up to your feelings and thoughts on it or move on and give her nothing.

Why are you paying for everything anyway? What does that have to do with friendship? Friendship or more, relationships should be a two way street.

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Hey man!

One thing I notice is that you make yourself too available for her.

1. You're the only one asking to hang out.
2. You're paying for her AND her friends.
3. She doesn't give anything in return.

In response to this, you froze her out - GOOD JOB! Keep doing this.

- If you bump into her and she asks you if you wanna hang out or why you haven't contacted her you tell her one thing; "I've been busy" or deny to hang out because you're too busy!

You don't wanna be her friend - you want to have sex with her! And you won't get this if you keep making yourself too available. You deny her your attention for a while now. And in the future - DON'T pay for her our her friends. If there is ever a real reason to pay for her, it is when you invite her to something which needs payment.

If she invites you to dinner/cinema, then she either pays or you split the bill. Preferably you split the bill, unless she insists. This is my philosophy.

i am not completely oppossed to the idea of being friends with a girl even if i want to fuck her so long as she does any of the following:
1.introduces me to her girlfriends
2.can help out financially(i got my first ever job through a girl who friendzoned me)
3.be my wingwoman.
But if you don't give me pussy,help me get pussy or be my wingwoman i'll just freeze out.

1. If she brings her friends with her, use her as social proof. Open girls. That's on you, she isn't going to approach for you. If she is bringing less hot but still attractive friends and you haven't hooked up with them, again, that's on you.
2. Stop paying
3. Ask her for favors like helping you shop for new clothes or learning to dance or something.
4. Make a move. Escalate. Either sh's down or she stops talking to you

Tell her for the same reasons that you have just stated here..

" I didn't feel like I was getting much out of this "

Also, keep in my that your desire to please a woman that you may or may not even see again, and your desire to be so polite to see someone that was using you as an orbiter is the reason this was a friend zone situation in the first place. Where are your balls? Tell her that she's a great girl in all, but you weren't interested in friendship. Who cares what she thinks? Why do yo have to be so "polite"? What do you gain? So far there has only been the opposite of winning happening. So make the change.

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