ok so there's this online hottie i hooked up with a couple of times. pretty hard nut to crack at first but now she's the one chasing me. i guess i employed the mystery method but strung out over a few months since she's from another city (3 hr drive). we text each other mainly to avoid things going completely stale but i'm bored and need more. we haven't even touched each other properly. hard to gather any momentum being so far.

my objective is for her to visit me for a weekend, we go all the way and i then move on or decide she's actually worth seeing again. right now i'm in limbo and she's just too hot to let go without closing.

what can i say to her by text ideally to make this happen ?

How about something like

"Need to talk to you in person about something, come down this weekend"
Then like freeze her out until she says when or something

It will freak her out a litttle bit, but I think you can be guaranteed it will make her come down.

IF she comes down, move into A3 and escalate kino

Nice one! but what's A3?

BTW she text me a hour ago saying ' hey what's new? i'm so tired of flying'.

haven't text back yet....

A3 is when you begin to show interest in her...give IOIs and kino escalate...then try and move on into comfort phases

There you go.

Btw i was meaning to ask do you have a link to a page where it explains each stage in detail?

I'd advise you read the ebook ....send me a PM with your email and ill send you mystery's book explaining the M3 Model.

PM me if your interested

Or you could spend $15 on the book while you're sarging Borders.

ok so i try what was suggested above and she says she's busy at a hen do.