This girl I'm going out with tonight (that I met online) lists the reason for being there as looking for "Friends," yet she is filtering potential friends as Single Men. I assume she is looking to get laid by a non-needy cool guy (i.e. me). What is the difference in how you seduce this kind of girl as opposed to relationship seeking females? Should I avoid boyfriend-y stuff like holding hands, putting my arm around her, etc during kino and just generally try to be more of a sexual/aggressive lover? Should I be making more bold moves like kissing early, touching, intense eye-contact, etc?

Virtually every girl is ultimately looking for a relationship or some sort of a connection to the highest value man she can.

Most girls don't want to jump into a relationship, certainly not before you fuck them. The only exceptions to this rule seem to be girls between the ages of 27-35, and that's because they're catching babies rabies. Keep that in mind.

A girl, "looking for friends" on a dating website is looking to date, and is trying to appear, "non-needy" or having it, "just happen" - i.e. she isn't LOOKING for a guy to date, they were just going to chill as friends, but SHOCKER, he made a move! They had chemistry, omg, who could have known???

Women don't work overtly the same way that we do. Their communication style is covertly and mixed with a lot of doublespeak and innuendo.

She's looking for a guy to possibly hook-up with, possibly date, etc.

I personally haven't met too many girls who aren't fans of affection and I personally haven't met too many women that knew what they wanted before it was put right in front of their faces.

You choose the woman and you lead her where you want her to be. And as long as you're operating from your deepest masculinity, she'll trust you to lead her anywhere you see fit. What she wants before you lead her means little to nothing because ultimately her femininity will submit to your masculinity- granted you know how to use this power, by first accepting it for what it is and proving to be responsible with it.

So I say treat her the way you treat women. A treat all women the same. With love and attentiveness. I don't switch up. Because its really about what I WANT. Most women want to fit into their partners life; they're not happy when they have to fit a man into theirs.

Lead, forget what she wants. If you can handle her, her wants will become your wants.

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Yeah you guys were right, we talked about her ex's and every relationship was 10+ months long. I Kino'd enough until she eventually started touching me back, but got a friendly kiss rejection. She countered with giving me her number (we had been using okcupid for messaging). Her eyes were super dilated from hello to goodbye. Not sure what that was about. She was also talking REALLY fast at the beginning then later calmed down, I'm guessing she was really nervous. Throughout the date she never gave any red lights when standing close and whispering, she seemed comfortable being in very close proximity.

Nervous or.... stoned off her ass?

She seemed pretty hyper, so I doubt weed. Like I said, she normalized later on in the date.

There is only one major difference between seducing girls who want a boyfriend and girls who want to get laid.

And that one difference is this:

You will not have to establish as much rapport with the girl who just wants to get laid. You will only need very little emotional connection with these types of girls, they respond better to more attraction and escalation.

That’s it bro. Otherwise keep doing everything like you normally would and you’ll get the green light.

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Most girls are going to EVENTUALLY want some type of relationship with you after a while.

Girls like sex. They will sleep with random guys. But it's alot better for their social value if they don't have to. So a boyfriend eliminates the problem. Plus... people start to develop these things called "feelings" for each other after you are physically connected so many times. So yes, she may eventually want to be in a relationship with you.

Most relationships start as fuck buddies. Usually girls that you hook up with as soon as you meet them.

Don't "force" a relationship. Just let it happen.

Always let the girl bring it up so you don't creep her the fuck out. She likes you cause your a player. Maintain that image until she really wins you over... then if you want to be her boyfriend and make yourselves "exclusive" to each other... go for it.

Don't get into a relationship for steady pussy or because your settling. Get into a relationship with a girl that will empower you and make you become a better man and you can make her a better woman.

I see a relationship as a team... and a girl has to earn her spot on my team. I'll give anyone a shot but its not an easy spot to get.

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Very well explained and a good way to look at it.