I seen this interesting post recently and wanted to share my thoughts about it with you all. I realized, guys go after girls because we think they're hot, which is sometimes wrongly called "objectifying" them. Putting pressure on woman to have big boobs, butt and a thin waist - arguably though, girls misinterpret what we want and tend to think we want girls to be starving models, which isn't the case.

I always see texts that other pua's get - girls telling them how turned on they are from how tall they are or how big their penis was from after sex and having never got something like that effects my confidence and ego. Typically, girls say nice things about my looks

On the flip side, I realized woman, objectify men in a certain way. There's pressure to have money, be tall, handsome, sexual prowess, have big muscles and a big penis. So there's pressure on us too. I don't really mind it, it's the nature of the beast. But think about this for a moment, say if some of these areas aren't up to par. How can one come to peace with it. I feel woman put pressure on guys to have massive reproductive organs and are not satisfied if we don't. Or is this one of those, say one thing, mean another thing. Is something like that a deal breaker? I've endlessly seen it for myself that girls dig bigger penises and praise their partners for it. Personally, I've never had a girl praise me for how big I was, tall or stuff like that.

But not having some of the things stated above, makes me feel less than a man. Take a moment to answer, cause I'm really seeking wisdom on this, so it has to make sense. I'm new here, so please no sarcasm or hate.

The amount of times you mentioned penis size leads me to believe this is the core of your issue.To be honest, I take great pride in my sexual prowess, and unfortunately, that pride is easy for a girl to shatter if she really wanted to. Its funny, I am at least average in size, probably even slightly above average, but I still worry, and this is just one insecurity I cant get rid of. I know Im big enough to satisfy my partner, but no one wants sex to just be mediocre, I want it to be the best.

Any guy, no matter how great his inner game, who says he doesnt have any insecurities is lying. Put simply, its just something you have to deal with. It all comes back to inner game, you have to have self worth inside yourself, and you cant tie your self esteem to what someone else thinks of you. Work on yourself to make yourself the best you that you can be, past that theres nothing you can do and its their loss if someone doesnt like you. In terms of sex, well lets just say I have really developed my oral skills, and I am yet to have an unsatisfied partner (or a partner who isnt bragging to her friends about me ).

Me and my friend went home with these two girls a while ago, he slept with his girl and mine just wanked me a bit cos she had a boyfriend (that's not really cheating ). Later the girl he was with was being flirty with me and hinting to him that she might be interested. That's when my insecurities about my penis size disappeared (I'm below average). If my penis size was that much of an issue, the girl I was with would have mentioned it to the other girl and they would have both thought "what a loser". Not what happened. So I just figure it's not an issue now.

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I read a study on penis size: 68% of guys are 4-6, 16% are larger and 16 percent are smaller. Of the larger 16%, only 2.5% are larger than 6.9. So if your girl tells you she has had 7-8+, she is full of shit statistically in many cases.

Also, below an inch difference, women can't really tell anyway. For instance if you were packing 5.5 and she got with a dude who had a 6.2 incher, she won't really notice

And as we all know, width is important if you have anywhere near average length, since that is what causes pleasure (but if you are too wide a woman won't enjoy that either!) Length just makes certain positions easier

Girls care about GIRTH (thickness) not length. So when girls are going on about big dicks, they really mean FAT dicks. A 12 " incher is useless if it's a thin pencil dick.

Stop talking about length, it is a meaningless conversation.

To a point. I'm 5.5 girth and a small girl once told me that she tried having sex with a guy with a "square chode" and that she didn't like big ones because they are scary as hell... too much of anything is bad I guess

Within reason obviously.

If you have a 2 inch dick then of course it won't matter how thick it is. But who actually has a dick that small? Mine is 6 erect but anything upwards of 4 will do the job if it's thick enough.

haha I think it was like 4-5 length from her estimation, but she called it a chode

How good do you think women are at even estimating tho? I'm working with the same length you are, depending on the day more or less lol...... I think they can't really tell the difference visually if its less than an inch really. Especially if it is years apart.

The clit can be stimulated from outside the pussy and the G-spot is no deeper than 3 inches inside. You just need to hit it at the right angle.

Technique > Size.

This.

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Keep in my mind, that for girls sex is more mental. But this can relate to tangible and physical things. There are some girls who get wet for you because of the car you drive, some girls who get wet for how nice you are, some girls who get wet for your muscles, some who get wet for a big dick. Technique is great but if a girl is turned off from your size or not attracted to a trait you have it could ruin it. You have to accept that you can't win every battle. Just be confident in yourself and accept your human and like yourself for you. Work on technique but don't get too hung up on being being perfect. If you work on your technique and approach it as sometimes it's not gonna be enough..I'll be ok, then you won't have a breakdown or something when a girl who likes big dicks or something doesn't get turned on.

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Yea it’s true, the size of a man’s penis doesn’t usually make or break her outlook on you. The reason women like guys with big dicks is mostly because of the confidence and self assurance that comes with that. So no the size of your dick isn’t the biggest deal in the world..... But wouldn’t you rather have a big dick?

Think about it dude

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I feel as though there are many exceptions to the bigger is better thing anyway. Many girls find big ones scary, small girls might find girth uncomfortable if it is too much or even impossible to enjoy. Length, again, I feel within an inch they can't really tell a visual difference and unless it is negative (aka poking their cervix alot) then it is a negative for some women.

Most guys are 5.0 to 6.5 and if your typical girl has had something like 5-10 partners most if not all should fall somewhere in there.

In womens defense, they really do think they've slept with guys that have 7 or 8 inch penises. Because guys lied to them in most cases, lol. If you are 6 and tell your girl you are 7.5, she'd most likely have no clue and just believe you. I was with a girl once that said her ex was 8 inches and she needed to find a new bf with at least that big because the sex was great. Later she told me that I was bigger than I really was because I was at least as big as her ex, even though I'm right over 6.

Unless you have a 2-3 inch dick, quit freaking out over it. Girls will still screw you. Just get really good at oral too and you're good.

I don't trust women's judgement on size comparisons to previous partners anyway. Most guys are in the normal range, and there are the very few who are noticeably larger or smaller. But the vast majority of us are in the same group. My current girl has said I'm dime a dozen or something, and I believe her....most of us are so similar

but my skills certainly are on another level