Hi guys, I have been seeing this girl for a month now, and it has been really good. Then a couple of days ago, I wrote to her to hear if she had any plans for the weekend. She did not respond for three days, and then today she wrote a message that said: "I dont think we should see each other anymore. A lot of things is happening, and i just don't feel like it." It came like a pretty big chock to me, and I have not replied yet. Any advice on what to do? And is it to late to fix? Btw we are both 21 years old, and have known each other for a long time, but only dated for a month.

Were you having sex with her?

Good. Don't reply. There is nothing in it for you in replying.

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Yes we were having sex.
Somehow i find it hard to believe, that the best suggestion is to not reply at all?

She gave you a shitty excuse on why she didn't want to see you anymore. She didn't even want to give you a real reason. She is either done with you or she's playing emotional games. You call her, you lose either way. You don't call her, she's going to eventually reach out to you.

But here's what you should think about. Why do you think she broke it off with you with no real excuse? If you did something wrong, I'm pretty sure she would let you know what it was.

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I really can't find something concrete I did wrong. The last time I saw her, we slept together and in the morning we kissed goodbye, and everything seemed fine. But I think i'm going to try not answering her, and then hopefully she takes contact to me, and if she does not, there is probably anyway not much I can do by now.

There's another guy. You didn't do anything wrong.

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Don't respond.

Say nothing and give it a week to see if she comes back around. I would give other advice but based off of your post I'm not sure you quite yet have the charisma to execute it.

So for where you are I would strongly advise that you leave that as that and start moving on. If she likes you she'll come back around. But for right now; leave it at that. Because every text you send her from this "weak emotional" state that you are currently in just adds further nails into the coffin.

Leave her be man. You're not going to argue or a convince a woman into continuing to see you. She has to feel that on her own.

Take the lesson; you'll grow strong from this if and only if you follow the advice. Too many guys will call and text 100 times before letting go. But by then its too late. They didn't really let go; they had no other choice. They don't grow necessarily.

Right now you still have a choice and if you choose to stay strong and ignore this situation; you will come up in emotional strength and begin to develop the qualities to attract higher quality women to you in the future.

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So if I had this 'charisma' what would your alternative be?

How often were you calling / texting her before she broke it off?

Your name is "NewInGame" - You have mild oneitis - I have no alternative.

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Best guess from the limited information is there is another guy, probably an ex. Above advice is sound, if you respond to that text, tell her no hard feelings and hope everything is good...then never contact her again. She may contact you though, but I wouldn't hold my breath.

We have seen each other seven times in the last month I think. And we have not been texting a lot, almost every time we have been texting it has been to set up a new date. From the time I saw her last time and till now, the only text I have send was the one she did not respond to, before she finally broke it off.

Touché!
I'm not going to respond, if I can not get her back, then I have nothing more to say to her.

Good dude well done dnt respond ! As the other guys have said what do you have to lose by not responding shes already gave you a bullshit reason.

My Bet is there is someone else probably about 90% sure there is. Dont reply she'll need you before you need her !

All the best bro !

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