Went on a wine tour with a bunch of friends and some new people.

Very late in the day one of the girls I had just met points at me while we're on the party bus, and just yells "stop starting at my tits!" Which was especially confusing at that instant, because I was actually looking the other direction when it happened... which I said. She didn't seem angry either though, it was almost like a joke or something. My memory is a little blurry by that point though...

So the rest of the day (this was towards the end of the trip anyway) I pretty much just ignored it and forgot about it. But now I'm trying to figure out what prompted it...

I thought maybe I had checked out her tits too often during the day... and that made me a little paranoid that maybe I'd been creeping out all the girls or something.

But then I got a friend request from her and her best friend on Facebook. Which seems odd if I had actually creeped her out...

Just now I looked through my pics to see if I had taken any good ones to post (I didn't) and noticed that like the first three pics on my camera are of her and her girlfriend posing as if fondling her tits. Then another pic while we're on the bus is just of her boobs with two of the other guys pointing at her cleavage, which I remember her prompting and she's smiling in the picture.

Now, I'm sure I looked at her boobs plenty but also pretty sure I wasn't actually "staring." In fact I was mostly talking and hanging out with other people in the wineries, so don't remember looking at or interacting with her much at all.

So what was that all about? Some kind of weird shit test maybe? Or she was trying to get my attention? Or maybe I really did creep her out a little?

Just ask her. She's the only one that can tell you, and it'll be an interesting start to a conversation if nothing else. Sounds to me as though she was joking, but in a way that didn't quite come across.

Are you ashamed to be heterosexual? What's the matter with you

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She seems like an attention whore. When she does this to most guys, they probably deny it. Don't be like one of those guys.

Then what is the proper reaction?

There's a difference between being heterosexual and creeping women out or upsetting them by staring at their tits.

Sounds like she's flirting with you.

It's like accusing a girl of staring at your ass.

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If you were seriously looking the other way, the girl is messing with you, either because she is flirting with you or because she wants attention (attention is likely if she was really linging guys up to take boob pics with her.

You should have owned up, or even if you denied it use a line like "I haven't stared at your tits in at least five minutes"

Don't let a girl call you out on shit, and don't get defensive over stuff like that.

If she facebooked you, set up a drink or a coffee date and bang her. If she brings up the "stop looking at my tits" thing (you shouldn't bring it up) play it off as "oh shit, that was good, respect (high five) it's hard to find a girl with a good sense of humor."

Yeah no one brings anything up if they're not trying to draw attention to it. If you were actually creeping her out, she would talk about it behind your back and try to trash your reputation.

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I personally think you should send a text message to her tits...

Ask how they've been... Tell them you miss them.

Pretty genius, lol.

She obviously loves the attention and knows they get her attention. If she has a sense of humor (I think so) this is a good move.

I guess my theory was that she was talking to her friend, and her friend told her to say something to me so she yelled it at me and pointed. I feel like yelling that at me kind of is trashing my reputation since everyone on the bus heard and saw her point...

Maybe you're right about the flirting though, not sure about asking her out. She had nice tits but I was way more interested in her friend. Unfortunately the friend is unavailable... :/

This ! She's using it to get your attention and gauge a conversation... Your reply should have been 'I love tits but god damn yours are so in my face!' She would have laughed and you could have easily took this further as shes an attention seeker and seen you as the man to give her the attention.

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